Slow down and notice every detail of your intimate time together. Do things like using unusual positions and lingerie will help bring your attention to the details and get the most arousal possible.
Once I caught my breath and came back into myself I asked if he’d like to see my lingerie. Keeping my high heels on I turned my back to him and slowly pulled my dress up exposing my thigh high nylons, black lacy panties and black corset. He embraced me from behind and pressed his hard dick against me. With one arm around my waist and the other hand on my throat he turned and pulled my head gently back to kiss him long and deep. I told him I was wet and asked if he would like to feel it. He released his hold on my and I leaned forward over a table as he ran his finger along the edge of my panties against my ass cheek all the way to my pussy. With one finger he gently grazed my vulva lips. I was so aroused my wetness was there for him to feel.
Moving his finger up and down my lips he slowly applied more and more pressure and the tip of his finger slipped into my slit. He found my swollen erect clit right away and began rubbing it, all the while I stayed bent over the table. Once he pushed his finger inside my vagina I couldn’t hold myself still. I began fucking back onto his finger. After a few minutes of this I asked if he would like to move to the bed.
Once on the bed I began to massage his back. He made it very difficult because he started playing with my pussy! I massaged his butt and the backs of his thighs drawing my hands nearer and nearer to his asshole. Then I gently spread his ass cheeks and ran my fingertip all round his anus for a minute before leaning over and using my tongue. Starting out with light pressure I ran the tip of my tongue all around the rim of his asshole. Flattening out my tongue I licked big long licks up his ass crack, just over his asshole at first but with each lick I moved down a little more until I was licking from the base of his hard cock up to his tailbone. In the meantime he had lifted up from his stomach to be on his knees so he could stroke himself as I licked.
I’m sharing the following erotic writing to give you some ideas to explore, topics to discuss and possibly new activities to try.
I came into the room. We started kissing and pressing our bodies together. I sank to my knees in front of him, opened his pants and pulled down his underwear. I wrapped my lips around the head of his dick, swirled my tongue first around his foreskin and then gently inside the foreskin around the glans. He pulled the foreskin back as I began to move my head up and down taking him deeper inside my mouth with every move. Eventually the head of his cock was hitting the back of my mouth and sometimes moving beyond that into my throat when I was able to make my forehead touch against his belly. My gag reflex was triggered over and over making my mouth and throat spasm on the head of his dick. The super slick spit came and all friction disappeared – there was only the sensations of my mouth running up and down his smooth hard shaft.
He slid his fingers through my hair and with a firm yet gentle grip on two big fistfuls of hair he began to control my head, alternately holding me still while he pumped his dick into my mouth, pulling my face against his body with his cock sunk all the way into my throat, and corkscrewing my head around so his cock would twirl around in my mouth. As the arousal intensified he got harder and harder. His breathing was ragged and he moaned his pleasure every few strokes. Throughout this time I could feel my pussy getting wet and swollen. As he was about to climax he pulled my mouth away from his cock and held it just out of reach of my mouth, watching as I strained to lick him with my mouth open and my tongue out.
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My biggest source of internal conflict as a teen and young adult when it came to sex was this – how can something that feels so good be wrong?
I had been taught that it’s best to abstain from sex until marriage. But I didn’t. And I felt awful about that. I loved having sex and all kinds of physical pleasure but I hated the feeling of lying, sneaking around, not being strong enough to say no. I took on a lot of guilt.
As a young adult I tried to change myself. I tried to be celibate. I tried to be monogamous. It wasn’t until I started having open communication in my relationship and we started swinging and I started working in the adult industry that I felt like I was living a lifestyle that was right for me. For a long time I still felt bad due to the taboo nature of my lifestyle. It’s only been in the last few years as I learn about sex and sexuality that I’m okay with who I am and release those (thoughts, people, etc) that don’t approve or agree.
You can feel good about your sex and sexuality too – you just have to decide on your guide and make it okay for you. Is your guide your religion? Your body? Your family? Whatever you choose follow it 100% and you will be happy. If you find you cannot follow it 100% or you do and you are not happy then maybe you need to try something else. Experiment! Play! You can try all kinds of different things and see if they work for you.
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