Nikki Lundberg

With all the gratitude posts I see the continual neutering of our lives.

I get it, we need to be appropriate and acceptable. I’m lucky I don’t always have to be.

I’m going to share my erotic gratitude list here.

It will be salacious and lascivious compared to most facebook gratitude posts - although I will still need to censor myself so as not to get flagged and put in fb jail.

Want to share your erotic gratitudes, just not publicly?

You are welcome to join one of my groups - I’d love to hear your erotic gratitude!

Ladies only

Co-ed (all genders)

Feel like you could benefit from some support around finding erotic gratitude? Pm me about booking an exploratory session.

Erotic Gratitudes

My ability to feel physical sensation

My ability to feel energetic sensation

My ability to write - writing about my erotic experiences lets me relive them

My body’s ability to open

The sensation of stretching

The sensation of being full

The sensation of friction

Lubrication

Ejaculate

Anal nerve endings

Clitoris built just for pleasure

Hands as erotic tools

Touch that is soft and light like air flowing over my skin

Touch that is firm and grounding that makes me feel more connected to the earth below me

Feeling like I can rest my body and receive

Touch that flows and swirls and is liquid and cool

Hot touch that burns and bites and stings waking up my skin

Full fisted hair pulling

Being so sensitive that I can feel touch that isn’t in direct contact with my skin

Feeling a lover’s body open up and accept me more deeply than ever before

The look on a lover’s face when their mind has been expanded in a new way, never to return to the old way

Redefining sx to include so much of life

Understanding how much pleasure is available

The desire to penetrate and fill up

The desire to dominate and force and hurt (in the most pleasurable way possible)

The desire to be filled

The desire to be pursued

The desire to be handled

Toys of all shapes and varieties to make our bodies feel all kinds of ways

Erotic literature

P0rn

Body worship

The ability to make someone peak through using my mouth on their feet

Being an exhibitionist

Being seen in an erotic state

Being a witness

Being a voyeur

Holding space

My heart

Connecting my heart to my genitals

Feeling my genitals and my heart open and expand

Lovers who trust me to guide them to new levels of ecstasy

White hot desire to have a lover like that for myself

Shame that feels heavy and prickly and drives us into the shadows to play

Role play

Power exchange

Play parties and group experiences

Curves

Oral pleasure

The thrill of breath play, choking, etc.

My brain and open-mindedness

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