All the kinky people in the community are probably thinking about enemas,
douches and the like and while I would be happy to share info on those
topics (just ask) that is not what I had in mind.
I am actually going to talk about a spring cleaning for your thoughts and beliefs
about sex and sexuality. I work with a mentor and she has taught me a lot
about beliefs and how to let go of the ones that don’t make me happy.
People ask me a lot of questions about sex but the #1 question is how did I get
into this line of work. They want to know how I could be doing something so
different from social norms. They want to know how I do what I do happily and
with a clear conscience against the way most of us were brought up.
I think the reasons they ask me are different for different people. Some are
simply curious but many wish they could do the same thing. Not that they want
to work in the adult industry but because they want to experience the sexual
freedom and happiness that it looks like I’m having. Because all the sexual
knowledge in the world doesn’t make much difference if you can’t make the
decision to take action and put it into practice.
I have learned through years of personal growth meetings and workshops to
make self-inventory a part of my daily life. By incorporating the additional piece
of examining my beliefs, letting go of the ones that don’t work for me and
embracing the ones that do I have been able to create a life-style beyond my
I invite you to join me now in examining personal beliefs around sex and sexuality
so you too can clean out and release the beliefs that don’t work for you and
experience the best sex life possible.
She was able to overcome (or begin to overcome) her negative beliefs. We talked about how she gets to choose what to believe and how if something is making her feel bad she can choose to change it and feel better about it. We talked about how to do that. I walked through that process myself with my mentor Shelby Collinge. Yes, fear and shame can be paralyzing. Walking through it and finding the freedom and truth inside is a-freakin-mazing!
He learned the basics of massage and sensual massage. You can see my videos about that here. More will be coming soon.
We found her g-spot. Yes, after 20+ years of marriage they were both unsure of the exact location. I think her orgasms will be going to the next level now!
We covered some basic bondage techniques. I showed him a chest harness and told him to look up twistedmonk.com to learn more about erotic rope bondage and to get a starter kit. Then we played with clothes pins and clamps;)
He improved his spanking technique – there is a way to do it that stimulates the entire groin!
They learned how to make anal sex enjoyable. I taught them the techniques I use in this video.
My male partner came about half way through the session and we were did some demonstration and he shared his experience about his sexual growth.
We developed a plan to keep the communication and kink going once they get home:)
I am so grateful and honored to have had this experience with them. I let them know they could email me if they had any follow up questions and if they liked my style of working with them and they wanted ongoing mentoring I would love to work with them via phone and email for a reasonable fee.
If you are interested in a 5 hour intensive please contact me.