Self Care and Self Pleasure with Sex Coach Nikki

Do you think it is truly possible to put self-care, including self-pleasure, first? I see it espoused all the time – to prioritize yourself.  Take care of yourself.  I move in circles where they prioritize pleasure above everything else.  Use it as a foundation and a basis for life and… Continue reading

Mindfulness Practice with Sex Coach Nikki

What is your favorite mindfulness practice? I just had a great meditation! There are so many practices that have us get into the present moment. The particular practice I just did is called existential kink. You can google it for more info but I’ll share my experience here. See –… Continue reading

What are you waiting to start?

New year’s resolutions usually fail. While I do like to set intentions and goals and play with the energy of a fresh year I don’t wait for a new year to start. There are ways to make goals more achievable, but many people don’t even set erotic goals. You can… Continue reading

Erotic Gratitude

With all the gratitude posts I see the continual neutering of our lives.   I get it, we need to be appropriate and acceptable.  I’m lucky I don’t have to be.   This is the erotic gratitude list I shared on facebook. It will be salacious and lascivious compared to most facebook… Continue reading

Men Love It When I Promote Female Pleasure

It’s super interesting how much attention I’ve gotten from men this week as I’ve been promoting a free pleasure mapping event for women. Not bad or wrong – just interesting. My theory is that this is happening for several reasons, reinforcing how vital my work for women is. Before I… Continue reading

Masturbation Coaching For Slow Sex ~ Couples Sex Coach Session For Christmas Part 3 of 5

When trying something new as a couple it’s ideal for both to get coaching together.  Also, the habits of each person’s solo sex will affect the couple’s partner sex. Couples Sex Coach Session For Christmas Part 3 He lay on the bed on his back and I sat between his… Continue reading

Anal Massage Lesson For Young Couple – Couples Sex Coach Session For Christmas Part 2 of 5

Sometimes you have to try something totally different. Couples Sex Coach Session For Christmas Part 2 Then I asked them if they had ever considered anal sex.  They said no but they were open to it.  I had her flip over to her stomach and began massaging her glutes and… Continue reading