Cultivating Pleasure

Cultivate Pleasure With Sex Coach Nikki

To cultivate is to acquire or develop (a quality, sentiment, or skill).  In what ways do you cultivate yourself?  Are you mindful about what you do in preparation of receiving what you desire?  Do you have conscious daily practices in place? In the past these concepts were foreign to me. … Continue reading


Practice prac•tice noun 1. habitual or customary performance; operation 2. habit; custom 3. repeated performance or systematic exercise for the purpose of acquiring skill or proficiency 4. condition arrived at by experience or exercise 5. the action or process of performing or doing something 6. the exercise or pursuit of… Continue reading

A Fresh Start For Your Sex Life In 3 Steps

It’s December and I love it when a new month starts! I know we can start fresh anytime – and, for some reason turning to a new calendar month helps a little more. It’s like I mentally and emotionally loosen my energetic grip a bit. Why would you want to… Continue reading

Too Busy For Sex?

too busy for sex? Sex Coach Nikki can help

I have been making some updates to this site the last couple of days and just realized that I haven’t written a blog post for over 2 months.  Unbelievable!  I mean, I get lots of satisfaction from writing.  It helps with all kinds of things – helping people, SEO, creating… Continue reading

Clitoris For Valentine’s Day

Happy Valentine’s Day!  Inspired by V-day this whole month I’ve been focusing on all things vagina – the vulva, squirting, and today I’ll be sharing a few things about the clitoris. Did you know the clitoris is the only organ in the human body created for the purpose of experiencing… Continue reading

Travel | Sex | Intimacy

Summer is in full swing (June 20th or 21st is the official first day of summer depending on the website you look at) and for a lot of people that means travel. If you’d like to share your thoughts on travel & sex / intimacy please do and you’ll get… Continue reading