Connection Thru Masturbation

Connection and wanting to feel connected are high on everyone’s list.  These are also potential benefits of mindful masturbation! How does this happen? When you create a mindful masturbation practice (with or without masturbation coaching) you begin to sensitize yourself to more subtle physical stimulation.  Part of sensitizing yourself is improving… Continue reading

August is Anal Sex Month With Sex Coach Nikki!

It’s Anal August once again and I have some fun stuff to share. Online I have an excellent full color pdf on the Art of Anal Pleasure that you can sign up for at right here ===> You will also get a series of emails directly to your inbox with… Continue reading

Cultivating Pleasure

Cultivate Pleasure With Sex Coach Nikki

To cultivate is to acquire or develop (a quality, sentiment, or skill).  In what ways do you cultivate yourself?  Are you mindful about what you do in preparation of receiving what you desire?  Do you have conscious daily practices in place? In the past these concepts were foreign to me. … Continue reading

Masturbation Coaching For Slow Sex

When trying something new as a couple it’s ideal for both to get coaching together.  Also, the habits of each persons solo sex will effect the couple’s partner sex. Couples Sex Coach Session For Christmas Part 3 He lay on the bed on his back and I sat between his… Continue reading

Anal Massage Lesson For Young Couple

Sometimes you have to try something totally different. Couples Sex Coach Session For Christmas Part 2 Then I asked them if they had ever considered anal sex.  They said no but they were open to it.  I had her flip over to her stomach and began massaging her glutes and… Continue reading

Improve Your Sex Life part 1

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Give Your Sex Life A Fresh Start The first step to improve your sex life is to acknowledge what has already happened.  This is the hard work that many of us try to avoid. Taking stock of the current state of affairs and the past can be very helpful.  It… Continue reading

50 Shades Of Grey – Discussion

I am passionate about great sex and my mission is to help people have more frequent and better quality sex.  I’ve known for years that there are many people suffering silently from lack of intimacy and the amazing success of the book Fifty Shades Of Grey proves it. What makes… Continue reading