How your beliefs can hurt you during anal sex with Anal Sex Coach Nikki

Are you wondering how your belief system could actually hurt you during anal sex? I’m Sex Coach Nikki http://NikkiLundberg.com. I find the number one reason people are experiencing pain during anal sex or even thinking anal sex is because of their belief system around it. This is one of the… Continue reading

Romance, Polyamory and Personal Integrity

Romance is the most tender part of many people’s lives and often the most difficult to talk about.  This is where we can feel most vulnerable – not only personally but also as a unit with our loves (both family and romantic). We feel like we have so much judgement on ourselves and others –… Continue reading

Connection Thru Masturbation

Connection and wanting to feel connected are high on everyone’s list.  These are also potential benefits of mindful masturbation! How does this happen? When you create a mindful masturbation practice (with or without masturbation coaching) you begin to sensitize yourself to more subtle physical stimulation.  Part of sensitizing yourself is improving… Continue reading

Difficult To Maintain An Erection In A Group Sex Situation?

Guys – Are you having a hard time getting it up or keeping it up in a group sex situation?  If so this is totally normal and something you can work through. As a sex coach and swinger I know that for many people the thought or desire to be in… Continue reading

Non Violent Communication Is A Great Tool!

To bridge the gap between the masculine “how” and the feminine “what”.  I’ve suggested this tool to several clients over the last couple weeks with great success. Many of us are verbally abusive or violent with our partners and we don’t even realize it.  We dominate, manipulate, and give guilt… Continue reading

August is Anal Sex Month With Sex Coach Nikki!

It’s Anal August once again and I have some fun stuff to share. Online I have an excellent full color pdf on the Art of Anal Pleasure that you can sign up for at right here ===> You will also get a series of emails directly to your inbox with… Continue reading

Monogamy Vs. Non-Monogamy | Social Conditioning

The hardest part of “coming out” was to acknowledge and accept that I am not monogamous to myself. I felt a lot of judgment for myself because of the stories/programming/conditioning I had around what monogamy and non-monogamy meant. Their meaning didn’t match up to my definition of self and that… Continue reading

Coming Out As Polyamorous

My husband and I began living a polyamorous lifestyle in spring of 2013. We are consensually non-monogamous. We both date casually as well as carrying on serious romantic commitments with others. We agree to always let each other know where we are, to make sure our daughter is taken care… Continue reading

Masturbation Coaching For Slow Sex

When trying something new as a couple it’s ideal for both to get coaching together.  Also, the habits of each persons solo sex will effect the couple’s partner sex. Couples Sex Coach Session For Christmas Part 3 He lay on the bed on his back and I sat between his… Continue reading