Romance, Polyamory and Personal Integrity

Romance is the most tender part of many people’s lives and often the most difficult to talk about.  This is where we can feel most vulnerable – not only personally but also as a unit with our loves (both family and romantic). We feel like we have so much judgement on ourselves and others –… Continue reading

Monogamy Vs. Non-Monogamy | Social Conditioning

The hardest part of “coming out” was to acknowledge and accept that I am not monogamous to myself. I felt a lot of judgment for myself because of the stories/programming/conditioning I had around what monogamy and non-monogamy meant. Their meaning didn’t match up to my definition of self and that… Continue reading

Internal Conflict

sexuality inner conflict

My biggest source of internal conflict as a teen and young adult when it came to sex was this – how can something that feels so good be wrong? I had been taught that it’s best to abstain from sex until marriage.  But I didn’t.  And I felt awful about… Continue reading

A Different Kind Of Spring Cleaning

Enema Spring Cleaning

All the kinky people in the community are probably thinking about enemas, douches and the like and while I would be happy to share info on those topics (just ask) that is not what I had in mind. I am actually going to talk about a spring cleaning for your… Continue reading