Why Relationships Make Us Feel Vulnerable Romance is the most tender part of many people’s lives and often the most difficult to talk about. This is where we can feel most vulnerable – not only personally but also as a unit with our loves (both family and romantic). We feel… Continue reading
Coming Out as Non-Monogamous The hardest part of “coming out” was to acknowledge and accept that I am not monogamous to myself. I felt a lot of judgment for myself because of the stories/programming/conditioning I had around what monogamy and non-monogamy meant. Their meaning didn’t match up to my definition… Continue reading
My biggest source of internal conflict as a teen and young adult when it came to sex was this – how can something that feels so good be wrong? I had been taught that it’s best to abstain from sex until marriage. But I didn’t. And I felt awful about… Continue reading
All the kinky people in the community are probably thinking about enemas, douches, and the like. While I would be happy to share info on those topics (just ask), that is not what I had in mind. Spring Cleaning for Your Sexual Beliefs I am actually going to talk about… Continue reading