Self Care and Self Pleasure with Sex Coach Nikki

Do you think it is truly possible to put self-care, including self-pleasure, first? I see it espoused all the time – to prioritize yourself.  Take care of yourself.  I move in circles where they prioritize pleasure above everything else.  Use it as a foundation and a basis for life and… Continue reading

Men Love It When I Promote Female Pleasure

It’s super interesting how much attention I’ve gotten from men this week as I’ve been promoting a free pleasure mapping event for women. Not bad or wrong – just interesting. My theory is that this is happening for several reasons, reinforcing how vital my work for women is. Before I… Continue reading

Couples Sex Coach Session For Christmas Part 5 of 5

We all got cleaned up and dressed and sat in a circle to review the experience.  She was very happy with everything and felt a new hope that she would be able to enjoy penetrative sex.  She finally felt like she wasn’t “broken”.   He felt grateful for the experience… Continue reading

Masturbation Coaching For Slow Sex ~ Couples Sex Coach Session For Christmas Part 3 of 5

When trying something new as a couple it’s ideal for both to get coaching together.  Also, the habits of each person’s solo sex will affect the couple’s partner sex. Couples Sex Coach Session For Christmas Part 3 He lay on the bed on his back and I sat between his… Continue reading

Anal Massage Lesson For Young Couple – Couples Sex Coach Session For Christmas Part 2 of 5

Sometimes you have to try something totally different. Couples Sex Coach Session For Christmas Part 2 Then I asked them if they had ever considered anal sex.  They said no but they were open to it.  I had her flip over to her stomach and began massaging her glutes and… Continue reading

25 Year Old Virgin Couple Due To Vaginal Pain ~ Couples Sex Coach Session For Christmas Part 1 of 5

There are many sexually conservative cultures throughout the world.  I work with you to observe your comfort levels and provide the most informative pleasurable experience possible.     Happy New Year! I am super excited for 2014 because every year has gotten better and better for me and 2013 was… Continue reading

Vulva Victory!

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The word vulva means the outside portion of a woman’s vagina. The word victory is defined as: 1: the overcoming of an enemy or antagonist 2: achievement of mastery or success in a struggle or endeavor against odds or difficulties I think many of us approach pussies as something to… Continue reading

Female Ejaculation | Squirting Orgasm | Class Video

Happy February!  In honor of V-day (Valentine’s Day) I’m going to focus on the vulva and vagina this month.  I often talk about the anatomy of pleasure and I even made up a new word – vaginatomy! Last week I hosted a female squirting orgasm class/party.  The party part didn’t… Continue reading

Couples Sex Coaching For Pleasure Session Part 3 of 3

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During couples sex coaching I often teach specific techniques.  One of the most popular is sensual massage and anal massage in particular.  I’m happy to explain the mechanics and set it up so that the couple has the tools they need to practice at home on their own. Other things… Continue reading

Couples Sex Coaching For Pleasure Session Part 1 of 3

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How do you (and your partner) know if you’re ready for couples sex coaching? If you’ve had fantasies and curiosities for a long time and haven’t been able to move forward. If you want to add a little zing to your sex life – to spice things up. If otherwise,… Continue reading