How to Bring More Presence and Pleasure Into Everyday Life

How to Bring More Presence and Pleasure Into Everyday Life It feels so good to be getting back into my rhythms and routines here at home after several weeks of traveling! I’ve been focusing on being present in everyday life, and it’s making such a difference. A Simple Practice for… Continue reading →

What to Expect When Working with Sex Coach Nikki

What to Expect When Working with Sex Coach Nikki If you’re considering working with a sex coach, you might be wondering what the experience will be like. Many people come to me feeling nervous, excited, or simply curious. Whether you’re looking to release shame, explore your desires, or deepen your… Continue reading →

Self Care and Self Pleasure with Sex Coach Nikki

Do you think it is truly possible to put self-care, including self-pleasure, first? I see it espoused all the time – to prioritize yourself.  Take care of yourself.  I move in circles where they prioritize pleasure above everything else.  Use it as a foundation and a basis for life and… Continue reading →

Men Love It When I Promote Female Pleasure

I’ve noticed something interesting when I promote events and programs focused on women’s pleasure. I often get a surprising amount of attention from men! It’s not bad or wrong, just interesting. I have a few theories about why this happens, and they reinforce just how important it is to help… Continue reading →

How to Give Yourself a Deeper Enema

How to Give Yourself a Deeper Enema Have you ever wondered how to do a really deep clean inside for anal play? In this article, I’m going to talk about one way to do a deeper or higher enema. There’s a lot of controversy around high enemas, whether they’re really… Continue reading →

Couples Sex Coach Session For Christmas Part 5 of 5

We all got cleaned up and dressed and sat in a circle to review the experience.  She was very happy with everything and felt a new hope that she would be able to enjoy penetrative sex.  She finally felt like she wasn’t “broken”.   He felt grateful for the experience… Continue reading →

Masturbation Coaching For Slow Sex ~ Couples Sex Coach Session For Christmas Part 3 of 5

When trying something new as a couple it’s ideal for both to get coaching together.  Also, the habits of each person’s solo sex will affect the couple’s partner sex. Couples Sex Coach Session For Christmas Part 3 He lay on the bed on his back and I sat between his… Continue reading →

Anal Massage Lesson For Young Couple – Couples Sex Coach Session For Christmas Part 2 of 5

Sometimes you have to try something totally different. Couples Sex Coach Session For Christmas Part 2 Then I asked them if they had ever considered anal sex.  They said no but they were open to it.  I had her flip over to her stomach and began massaging her glutes and… Continue reading →

25 Year Old Virgin Couple Due To Vaginal Pain ~ Couples Sex Coach Session For Christmas Part 1 of 5

There are many sexually conservative cultures throughout the world.  I work with you to observe your comfort levels and provide the most informative pleasurable experience possible.     Happy New Year! I am super excited for 2014 because every year has gotten better and better for me and 2013 was… Continue reading →

Golden Showers And Human Toilet Training

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Some fetishes can be difficult to wrap your mind around at first, especially when they involve activities you personally find unpleasant or taboo. But with curiosity, communication, and an open mind, you can begin to understand what makes these experiences appealing to someone else. I recently worked with someone who… Continue reading →