Sexual Orientation Question

Question:  I’m married and live a straight lifestyle in every way except – I have an attraction to beautiful feminine T-girls.  Am I considered gay, bi or straight? Answer: Sexual orientation is not black and white – it is a continuum, a scale with many numbers and shades of grey… Continue reading

Clitoris For Valentine’s Day

Happy Valentine’s Day!  Inspired by V-day this whole month I’ve been focusing on all things vagina – the vulva, squirting, and today I’ll be sharing a few things about the clitoris. Did you know the clitoris is the only organ in the human body created for the purpose of experiencing… Continue reading

Vulva Victory!

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The word vulva means the outside portion of a woman’s vagina. The word victory is defined as: 1: the overcoming of an enemy or antagonist 2: achievement of mastery or success in a struggle or endeavor against odds or difficulties I think many of us approach pussies as something to… Continue reading

Female Ejaculation | Squirting Orgasm | Class Video

Happy February!  In honor of V-day (Valentine’s Day) I’m going to focus on the vulva and vagina this month.  I often talk about the anatomy of pleasure and I even made up a new word – vaginatomy! Last week I hosted a female squirting orgasm class/party.  The party part didn’t… Continue reading

Couples Sex Coaching For Pleasure Session Part Three

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During couples sex coaching I often teach specific techniques.  One of the most popular is sensual massage and anal massage in particular.  I’m happy to explain the mechanics and set it up so that the couple has the tools they need to practice at home on their own. Other things… Continue reading

Feeling Alone In Your Relationship?

Stop Feeling Alone In Your Relationship I know what it’s like to be feeling alone in your relationship.  I experience that when I’m afraid.  Sometimes I feel like I can’t talk openly and freely with my partner.  I become afraid that if I share what is going on inside that… Continue reading

Couples Sex Coaching For Pleasure Session Part One

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How do you (and your partner) know if you’re ready for couples sex coaching?  If you’ve had fantasies and curiosities for a long time and haven’t been able to move forward.  If you wan to add a little zing to your sex life – to spice things up.  If otherwise… Continue reading

Naked Travel With Nikki

Yes, I said naked!  Does that mean you’ll be getting to see me nude? Not necessarily… I’m going to be sharing the naked truth about sex and sexuality as I travel and speak all over the country:) Get Naked With Me! 9/1 Between The Sheets Live Broadcast At The Erotic… Continue reading