I have been making some updates to this site the last couple of days. I just realized that I haven’t written a blog post for over 2 months. Unbelievable! I mean, I get lots of satisfaction from writing. It helps with all kinds of things: helping people, SEO, creating community,… Continue reading
Prostate massage and anal pleasure can be part of an intimate experience filled with desire, arousal, and exploration. Be courageous and have fun while leaning into the sensations of desire and arousal. This is the final installment of my erotic story. You can read Part 2 here. An Erotic Experience… Continue reading
Some fetishes can be difficult to wrap your mind around at first, especially when they involve activities you personally find unpleasant or taboo. But with curiosity, communication, and an open mind, you can begin to understand what makes these experiences appealing to someone else. I recently worked with someone who… Continue reading
My biggest source of internal conflict as a teen and young adult when it came to sex was this – how can something that feels so good be wrong? I had been taught that it’s best to abstain from sex until marriage. But I didn’t. And I felt awful about… Continue reading
Understanding sexual orientation isn’t always easy. Sometimes people question their sexual orientation when they discover unexpected attractions or experience something new. For example, I received a question about being straight, bisexual, or heteroflexible. Here is the question, along with my original response. The Question: What Is My Sexual Orientation? Question:… Continue reading
Happy Valentine’s Day! Inspired by V-day this whole month I’ve been focusing on all things vagina – the vulva, squirting, and today I’ll be sharing a few things about the clitoris. Did you know the clitoris is the only organ in the human body created for the purpose of experiencing… Continue reading
The word vulva means the outside portion of a woman’s vagina. The word victory is defined as: 1: the overcoming of an enemy or antagonist 2: achievement of mastery or success in a struggle or endeavor against odds or difficulties I think many of us approach pussies as something to… Continue reading
Happy February! In honor of V-day (Valentine’s Day), I’m going to focus on the vulva and vagina this month. I often talk about the anatomy of pleasure, and I even made up a new word: vaginatomy! Exploring Female Ejaculation Last week, I hosted a female squirting orgasm class/party. The party… Continue reading
During couples sex coaching I often teach specific techniques. One of the most popular is sensual massage and anal massage in particular. I’m happy to explain the mechanics and set it up so that the couple has the tools they need to practice at home on their own. Other things… Continue reading
Stop Feeling Alone In Your Relationship I know what it’s like to be feeling alone in your relationship. I experience that when I’m afraid. Sometimes I feel like I can’t talk openly and freely with my partner. I become afraid that if I share what is going on inside that… Continue reading