Men Love It When I Promote Female Pleasure

It’s super interesting how much attention I’ve gotten from men this week as I’ve been promoting a free pleasure mapping event for women. Not bad or wrong – just interesting. My theory is that this is happening for several reasons, reinforcing how vital my work for women is. Before I… Continue reading

Female Pleasure Mapping Challenge on Facebook

  Ladies – why is it so important to know about your pleasure anyway? Like – what’s the big deal? I’ll share a bit about my story to explain why I think it is so important.   As a kid and teen, I always sought out physical connection and exploration… Continue reading

Self Pleasure Practice Experience – An Example Of What’s Possible

My self pleasure session this morning started with the desire to cum, to relieve the pressure built up from erotic experiences and from life.  This week has been filled with pool parties, clients, and family.  Anticipating another big get-together this afternoon, I wanted to take care of myself to not… Continue reading

Connection Thru Masturbation

Connection and wanting to feel connected are high on everyone’s list.  These are also potential benefits of mindful masturbation! How does this happen? When you create a mindful masturbation practice (with or without masturbation coaching) you begin to sensitize yourself to more subtle physical stimulation.  Part of sensitizing yourself is improving… Continue reading

Masturbation Benefits

There are a TON of benefits to be had from masturbation and you can exponentially increase how many you experience by practicing mindful masturbation. My favorite benefit is stress relief. Our daily lives are filled with stress from many sources and with masturbation you can use erotic energy to move… Continue reading

My Climax

I started masturbating very young, realizing that it felt good to put pressure and friction “down there”. There was a time when I started to notice climax. And then I started experimenting with penetration. As I became sexually active I continued to masturbate.  I only noticed climax during masturbation.  I… Continue reading

Cultivating Pleasure

Cultivate Pleasure With Sex Coach Nikki

To cultivate is to acquire or develop (a quality, sentiment, or skill).  In what ways do you cultivate yourself?  Are you mindful about what you do in preparation of receiving what you desire?  Do you have conscious daily practices in place? In the past these concepts were foreign to me. … Continue reading

Moms And Masturbation

Yes, hate to break it to you, but we moms do masturbate. While we might hate to think about our own mothers masturbating studies have found that pregnant women masturbate more and women in general tend to masturbate more as they get older. I’m a mom. I’m grateful for mindful… Continue reading

Self Pleasure Party (Ladies Only)

When:  Saturday September 7th, 5pm Where:  The Las Vegas Adam & Eve Store 3231 N Decatur Blvd, Las Vegas, NV 89103 I’m so excited!  I’m going to be guest speaking at this event at the local Adam & Eve Store here in Las Vegas. Sorry this event is for ladies… Continue reading