I came across something I wrote during Masturbation Awareness Month in 2021. I’m so grateful I’ve come so far! There is a challenge for you at the end, should you choose to accept it. My Journey Toward Body Acceptance Self-pleasure, making love to your most hated body part, and masturbating… Continue reading
Over the years, I’ve learned to listen more closely to my inner being. Sometimes wisdom comes through meditation, reflection, personal experiences, or those sudden moments of clarity I like to call “downloads.” These are some of the truths and reminders I’ve collected along my journey. They reflect what I’ve learned… Continue reading
Do you think it is truly possible to put self-care, including self-pleasure, first? I see it espoused all the time: prioritize yourself. Take care of yourself. I move in circles where people prioritize pleasure above everything else. They use it as a foundation for life and business, and as a… Continue reading
Understanding Shame There are many layers to shame. The definition of shame is a painful feeling of humiliation or distress caused by the consciousness of wrong or foolish behavior. We, as humans, have some basic instincts that make us susceptible to shame. First, pain motivates us! We want to avoid… Continue reading
Coming Out as Non-Monogamous The hardest part of “coming out” was to acknowledge and accept that I am not monogamous to myself. I felt a lot of judgment for myself because of the stories/programming/conditioning I had around what monogamy and non-monogamy meant. Their meaning didn’t match up to my definition… Continue reading