Difficult To Maintain An Erection In A Group Sex Situation?

Why Erections Can Be Difficult During Group Sex Guys – Are you having a hard time getting it up or keeping it up in a group sex situation? If so, this is totally normal and something you can work through. As a sex coach and swinger, I know that for… Continue reading →

Non Violent Communication Is A Great Tool!

To bridge the gap between the masculine “how” and the feminine “what”. I’ve suggested this tool to several clients over the last couple weeks with great success. How We Hurt Each Other With Words Many of us are verbally abusive or violent with our partners, and we don’t even realize… Continue reading →

How to Give Yourself a Deeper Enema

How to Give Yourself a Deeper Enema Have you ever wondered how to do a really deep clean inside for anal play? In this article, I’m going to talk about one way to do a deeper or higher enema. There’s a lot of controversy around high enemas, whether they’re really… Continue reading →

Anal, Bali, Masturbation | Checking in

Anal Update The “Art Of Anal Pleasure” class was AMAZING. We had a full house and 2 amazing demonstration models. One was a gentleman who was a very experienced anal player. He got to have his limits stretched by having an audience view his play. The second was a beautiful… Continue reading →

Delayed Ejaculation

Email Nikki@NikkiLundberg.com for more information on sex coaching and masturbation coaching. What Is Delayed Ejaculation? Delayed ejaculation is also known as impaired ejaculation. This happens when ejaculation takes longer than you would like and causes frustration. You may also get tired or sore from sex or masturbation before you ejaculate…. Continue reading →

Masturbation Benefits

What Are the Benefits of Masturbation? There are a TON of benefits to be had from masturbation, and you can exponentially increase how many you experience by practicing mindful masturbation. My favorite benefit is stress relief. Our daily lives are filled with stress from many sources. With masturbation, you can… Continue reading →

Monogamy Vs. Non-Monogamy | Social Conditioning

Coming Out as Non-Monogamous The hardest part of “coming out” was to acknowledge and accept that I am not monogamous to myself. I felt a lot of judgment for myself because of the stories/programming/conditioning I had around what monogamy and non-monogamy meant. Their meaning didn’t match up to my definition… Continue reading →

Coming Out As Polyamorous

Our Journey Into Polyamory My husband and I began living a polyamorous lifestyle in spring of 2013. We are consensually non-monogamous. We both date casually as well as carrying on serious romantic commitments with others. We agree to always let each other know where we are and to make sure… Continue reading →

My Climax

I started masturbating very young, realizing that it felt good to put pressure and friction “down there”. There was a time when I started to notice climax. And then I started experimenting with penetration. As I became sexually active I continued to masturbate.  I only noticed climax during masturbation.  I… Continue reading →

Cultivating Pleasure

Cultivate Pleasure With Sex Coach Nikki

To cultivate is to acquire or develop (a quality, sentiment, or skill). In what ways do you cultivate yourself? Are you mindful about what you do in preparation for receiving what you desire? Do you have conscious daily practices in place? Cultivating the Life I Desire In the past these… Continue reading →