How to Bring More Presence and Pleasure Into Everyday Life It feels so good to be getting back into my rhythms and routines here at home after several weeks of traveling! I’ve been focusing on being present in everyday life, and it’s making such a difference. A Simple Practice for… Continue reading
On April 18th, 2022, I went to see (another) doctor about chronic pain in my right hip. I found out I had advanced arthritis and no cartilage left in the joint, and that I could have hip replacement surgery! I was super excited and scheduled it as soon as possible,… Continue reading
I help people who feel disappointed and frustrated with their sex lives experience full body peak levels of pleasure. I had a client who was so frustrated with her sex life. In every other area, she was kicking ass and taking names. She had become the breadwinner in her family…. Continue reading
Why Men Feel Shame About Anal Pleasure When I first started providing sensual and erotic massage, I learned to follow a person’s pleasure with my touch. My clientele was 99% men. 🌹 With my hands, I followed the energy and movement of their bodies, venturing closer to their anal area… Continue reading
Why the Quality of Attention Matters in Sex Coaching “Seeing you is so much better than seeing that psychiatrist,” she told me as we left my office one evening. She had been a student of mine for a while and had recently started working with me through private coaching. Coaching… Continue reading
Have You Been Nervous About Attending a Sex-Positive Workshop? Have you ever wanted to attend a sex-positive workshop but felt nervous about what to expect? Maybe you’re curious, but you’re afraid you’ll feel uncomfortable, inexperienced, or out of place. I understand those feelings because I’ve experienced them myself. I’ve attended… Continue reading
New year’s resolutions usually fail. While I do like to set intentions and goals and play with the energy of a fresh year, I don’t wait for a new year to start. There are ways to make goals more achievable, but many people don’t even set erotic goals. What Do… Continue reading
Right now I am surrendering to my desire to have a healthy body. The desire to have more energy available to focus on business, school, family, and pleasure. To stop energy leaks. What Does Surrender Look Like? What does that look like? ❤️ Getting up early even when I’d rather… Continue reading
New year’s resolutions usually fail. While I do like to set intentions and goals and play with the energy of a fresh year, I don’t wait for a new year to start. There are ways to make goals more achievable, but many people don’t even set erotic goals. What Erotic… Continue reading
The following is an excerpt from an email with questions about female ejaculation: I think many women can learn to squirt, although it’s easier for some than others. The fluid is associated with the Skene’s glands, which vary in size from woman to woman. Are Squirting and Orgasm the Same?… Continue reading