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With my hands I followed the energy and movement of their body, venturing more closely to their anal area with each stroke. I had never given much pleasure to the backside of a person’s body so I was not sure what I was doing.
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As person after person lay on my table with their body asking to be touched in the most sensitive of areas, I learned. I learned how to be slow, how to tease, and how to penetrate.
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I enjoyed receiving anal stimulation so I knew it felt good. And with practice, I got very skilled at it. I also asked these men why they were doing it – especially if they were in a relationship.
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Time and again the answer had to do with shame.
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They felt they could not tell their partner that they enjoyed anal stimulation.
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They were afraid they would be labeled as gay.
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They were afraid of their partner’s reaction.
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They were afraid of being seen as dirty or perverted.
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I have always felt that if something feels good then it can’t be wrong. I see how our social conditioning makes us wrong for enjoying anal pleasure and I believe it comes down to the fact that we live in a Judeo-Christian dominated culture.
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One way to control people is to control their sex. By making intercourse for the purpose of procreation only, it means it’s a sin to do it for any other reason.
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Oral and anal pleasure are off limits.
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The only people who could do it despite social conventions were gay men and sluts/prostitutes.
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And no one wants the stigma of those roles…
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That put anyone else who enjoyed it down.
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Those who see me for coaching or come to my classes are ready to face their conditioning and ask if their beliefs still support them.
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They learn the safer ways to experience this most intimate pleasure as both a giver and a receiver.
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If this is you then you should definitely check out my upcoming workshop:
The Art of Anal Pleasure
If you would prefer some private attention (private coaching), let me know and we can schedule a time to talk about working together privately.