All the kinky people in the community are probably thinking about enemas, douches, and the like. While I would be happy to share info on those topics (just ask), that is not what I had in mind.
Spring Cleaning for Your Sexual Beliefs
I am actually going to talk about a spring cleaning for your thoughts and beliefs about sex and sexuality.
I work with a mentor, and she has taught me a lot about beliefs. She has also taught me how to let go of the ones that don’t make me happy.
Questioning Social Norms Around Sexuality
People ask me a lot of questions about sex, but the number one question is how I got into this line of work.
They want to know how I could be doing something so different from social norms. They also want to know how I do what I do happily and with a clear conscience, despite the way most of us were brought up.
I think the reasons they ask me are different for different people.
Some are simply curious, but many wish they could do the same thing. Not that they want to work in the adult industry, but because they want to experience the sexual freedom and happiness that it looks like I’m having.
After all, all the sexual knowledge in the world doesn’t make much difference if you can’t make the decision to take action and put it into practice.
Our beliefs about sexuality can be influenced by social expectations. I explore this further in Monogamy vs. Non-Monogamy and Social Conditioning.
How Examining My Beliefs Changed My Life
I have learned through years of personal growth meetings and workshops to make self inventory a part of my daily life.
By incorporating the additional piece of examining my beliefs, I have been able to create a lifestyle beyond my wildest dreams.
I let go of the beliefs that don’t work for me and embrace the ones that do.
For more ideas about self-examination, read Treasures From Self-Examination and Pleasure Practices.
Are You Ready to Examine Your Beliefs?
I invite you to join me now in examining personal beliefs around sex and sexuality.
You too can clean out and release the beliefs that don’t work for you. As a result, you can experience the best sex life possible.
The first step is making a decision. Are you in?