Exploring Anal Massage: A Couples Sex Coaching Experience

Sometimes you have to try something totally different. Introducing Anal Massage to a Couple Then I asked them if they had ever considered anal sex. They said no, but they were open to it. I had her flip over to her stomach and began massaging her glutes and sit bones…. Continue reading →

When Vaginal Pain Prevents Penetration: A Couples Sex Coaching Experience

There are many sexually conservative cultures throughout the world. I work with you to observe your comfort levels and provide the most informative, pleasurable experience possible. A Young Couple Struggling With Penetration I met with a couple who were visiting from out of town. They had been looking online for… Continue reading →

How to Improve Your Sex Life by Letting Go of the Past

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Take an Honest Look at Your Sex Life The first step to improve your sex life is to acknowledge what has already happened. This is the hard work that many of us try to avoid. Taking stock of the current state of affairs and the past can be very helpful…. Continue reading →

A Fresh Start For Your Sex Life In 3 Steps

It’s December, and I love it when a new month starts! I know we can start fresh anytime, and for some reason, turning to a new calendar month helps a little more. It’s like I mentally and emotionally loosen my energetic grip a bit. Why Start Fresh With Your Sex… Continue reading →

Too Busy For Sex?

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I have been making some updates to this site the last couple of days. I just realized that I haven’t written a blog post for over 2 months. Unbelievable! I mean, I get lots of satisfaction from writing. It helps with all kinds of things: helping people, SEO, creating community,… Continue reading →

Couples Sex Coaching For Pleasure Session Part 3 of 3

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During couples sex coaching I often teach specific techniques.  One of the most popular is sensual massage and anal massage in particular.  I’m happy to explain the mechanics and set it up so that the couple has the tools they need to practice at home on their own. Other things… Continue reading →

Couples Sex Coaching For Pleasure Session Part 2 of 3

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I offer lots of options during individual and couples sex coaching sessions. One option is nudity – either partial or full.  I will follow my client’s comfort levels regarding this – whatever is best to meet their needs is what we will do. I feel that being naked takes away… Continue reading →

Feeling Alone In Your Relationship?

Stop Feeling Alone In Your Relationship I know what it’s like to be feeling alone in your relationship. I experience that when I’m afraid. Sometimes I feel like I can’t talk openly and freely with my partner. I become afraid that if I share what is going on inside that… Continue reading →

Couples Sex Coaching For Pleasure Session Part 1 of 3

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Are You Ready for Couples Sex Coaching? How do you (and your partner) know if you’re ready for couples sex coaching? If you’ve had fantasies and curiosities for a long time and haven’t been able to move forward. If you want to add a little zing to your sex life,… Continue reading →