My guy (like most) is almost always ready for sex. I (like many women) am not. My sexual energy is often being redirected toward my business and other responsibilities and at the end of the day if I’m too tired I know I can put sex off ’til tomorrow.
A very interesting thing happened as we drove to our destination for our family spring vacation. I realized that I wouldn’t have sex on tap since my daughter would be in the same hotel room. All of a sudden I wanted it – simply because I couldn’t have it without getting creative. This made for a very fun vacation since we were able to flirt and tease each other and I knew that we would have time to let the anticipation build.
The one time we finally did have a chance to get intimate during our trip and the time upon returning home was more intense because of the build up. Here are some tips to re-create this scenario:
- Put yourself in a situation where you know you can’t have sex for at least 3 days. Not even solo love:)
- Make it playful… flirt and tease during this time of abstinence.
- Have a change of scenery – whether that’s a hotel room or a different room in the house. Different locations can have different energy.
Let me know how it goes:)