#1 Blow job tip with Sex Coach Nikki

My #1 tip is to use your own body as a guide for giving pleasure. In order to do this you must get centered and sensitive to your own sensations. You need to focus on the experience, not the performance.

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Add Oil For Bedroom Fun

If you’re looking for ways to spice things up then this is definitely one of them – add oil!

Here’s a story from The Adventures Of A Las Vegas Masseuse that demonstrates how you can incorporate oil for bedroom fun.  Enjoy!

I set up the massage table and got started with the massage.  He and I talked about business, swinging and new year’s resolutions.  It was nice because we really clicked.

As I finished his first thigh I massaged his groin, pulling my hands from the front side of his groin to his back side in long, slow, firm strokes.  I pressed especially hard on his sit bones while inadvertently grazing his ass crack and asshole.  I saw that he liked it because he spread his legs wider and tilted his pelvis a bit.  With each stroke I got closer and closer to the center of the crack of his ass until my stroke was beginning at the head of his cock, covering his ball sack and running up the crack of his ass to finish just past his tail bone.

Just when his cock was completely rock hard and he was starting to squirm on the table I left the area to work on his calf and foot.  I moved to his other leg and after massaging his glute and thigh I worked my way into his ass crack again to the point of him wiggling a bit.  Stopping, I moved to finish his calf and foot.

I grabbed a hand towel and told him I had to remove a little excess oil.  I wiped off his butt cheeks and the inside of his ass crack.  Climbing on the table behind him in between his legs I put one hand on each cheek and gently spread him open.  After teasing first by blowing cool air and then opening my mouth wide and exhaling warm breath air right onto his asshole, I started kissing the entire area with light little pecks.  Then I began to gently lick the area, softly at first, covering the whole area with saliva.  As I became more aroused I used my tongue more and more firmly and directly on the rosebud of his ass.  Swirling, going up and down and side to side, stopping to suck and bite on his ass cheeks, I let him hear my pleasure with moans.

When I’d had enough I got up and got out the gloves.  I trailed them along his body very slowly to give a feather light strokes.  I spent extra time around the buttocks.  I stuck my tongue into his ass crack again as I pulled each glove on.  Getting my gloved hands oiled up, I massaged the anus all around the opening.  Covering my finger with lube I slowly worked it in.  He didn’t enjoy the deeper probing and massaging so I stayed shallow and used my other hand to massage his cock.

After awhile I had him turn onto his back.  He had gone partially soft as all his attention was on his anus.  Using my mouth I got his dick completely covered with saliva and then slowly started moving my lips up and down his shaft.  As soon as he came to a full erection I stopped and began to massage the front of his leg.  When I was finished with the first leg he had gone a little soft again so once again I used my mouth to gently and slowly get him hard.  He talked about how he enjoyed feeling my boobs on his leg.

Once I finished massaging his leg I rubbed oil all over his groin, belly and chest.  Climbing on the massage table and coming up between his legs I got on my hands and knees and hovered above him.   I slowly lowered my breasts against his groin and began to grind my chest in all different directions.  Lowering my torso more, I pressed up, sliding up his belly and chest until I could feel his hard cock pressing into my belly.  I gyrated against him randomly licking and biting his chest and neck.  He told me to stop or he would cum.  I held still and asked him if he would like another position.  He wanted the same booby/body rub but on his back side.

slide for bedroom funHe flipped over to lay on his stomach.  I poured oil all over his back and spread oil all over my boobs and belly.  Starting from where his head lay, I climbed onto the table, sliding my breasts down his back starting at his shoulders.  As my torso lined up completely with his I had one knee planted on each side of his head.  I spread his ass cheeks and licked some more and enjoyed the feeling of his hot breath on my inner thigh.

Continuing my body slide I got to the point where my pussy was on his ass.  I took that opportunity to grind my clit against his tailbone.  Because of all the oil my pussy lips were able to spread completely open and I could feel the texture of his skin against every bit of my vulva and inner labia as I gyrated against him.

I continued the body slide down his legs and turned around.  Putting my face to his ass again I joked about how his ass smelled like pussy and oh my gosh tasted like it too!  Again I slid up his back pressing my boobs into him until my pussy was lined up with his ass and I ground my clit into his tail bone.  I was kissing and nibbling all around his upper back, shoulders, neck and ears.  His excitement was building as he started moving around beneath me and grinding his ass up into me.

I slid back down him and told him to get on his knees.  Taking his cock in one hand and his balls in the other I licked his ass up and down the crack letting saliva drip down covering his balls and then his cock.  As they became more and more slick I continued to massage him using broader strokes.  I alternated my motions on his cock, pulling it with it pointing toward his chest and then stretching it back as far as it would go against his ass so I could suck on it from behind.  Several times I moved my mouth from place to place – cock, balls, ass, cock, balls, ass – until he told me he was going to cum and I made sure to keep my fist pumping his cock rhythmically while I pressed my face into his ass.  The feeling of gush after gush of hot cum on my palm and running down my wrist as his pelvis jerked and spasmed against my face was extremely satisfying.

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5 TIPS FOR BETTER FELLATIO

Fellatio can be a wonderful way to spice up your sex life! The tips I have for you are gleaned from my personal experience, what I’ve gotten compliments on and that sort of thing. Fellatio (as well as cunnilingus) is often thought of as an act of foreplay prior to intercourse, which it can be, but tonight; make it your main event!

Foreplay isn’t just for sex! Build up the anticipation to further excite your partner. This particular act is pretty much all about him, so rock his world! You can kiss down his body, avoiding the penis and scrotum and focusing on his thighs for a few minutes, kissing them all over and running your fingers or tongue lightly over the skin. If you know your man likes it a little rougher, then add more pressure. The point is to allow the excitement to build up before you even touch his package.

Don’t ignore the balls or the perineum; these highly sensitive areas are all too often forgotten about when they are just inches away from your face. Fondle the balls as you suck and lick the penis. You can even gently pull them down and away from the body, with the proper technique this will also delay orgasm for a little bit. Use your fingers to massage the perineum (the small strip of skin between his scrotum and his anus) to stimulate the prostate from the outside. This will increase his pleasure and his orgasm will be much more intense for him.

Where and When? Two things need to be discussed prior to you going down on your guy- where is he going to ejaculate? Are you going to swallow it? Would you prefer that he came on another part of your body or in your mouth? What does he prefer? Some women are able to do this from the get go and men love to be able to push it as far as it will go. Many women have an easy gag reflex and though there are techniques that can help ease this if that is your goal, you want to make sure you both have a clear boundary in line before you’re in the heat of the moment.

Variety! Lick him up and down the shaft and around the head of his penis. The best lube is your spit and lots of it! He’ll love the sensation of your wet lips and tongue all over his package. Use your hands too: You can put your hand at the base of his penis and move it in either circular motions by rotating your hand around his penis as you lick and suck the head, or moving your hand up and down the shaft in tandem with your mouth. The dual and competing sensations will drive him absolutely wild! Just be sure to avoid using your teeth unless you know he’s into it. Teeth are sharp and his penis is sensitive, nothing will kill the mood faster than him sitting up and screaming “Ouch” at the top of his lungs.

Get excited about it! He’ll enjoy receiving much more if he knows you’re enjoying performing!

Happy Endings!