Non Violent Communication Is A Great Tool!

To bridge the gap between the masculine “how” and the feminine “what”.  I’ve suggested this tool to several clients over the last couple weeks with great success. Many of us are verbally abusive or violent with our partners and we don’t even realize it.  We dominate, manipulate, and give guilt… Continue reading

#1 Blow job tip with Sex Coach Nikki

My #1 tip is to use your own body as a guide for giving pleasure. In order to do this you must get centered and sensitive to your own sensations. You need to focus on the experience, not the performance. Do you have any questions giving head? Ask in the… Continue reading

How To Give Yourself A Deeper/Higher Enema With Sex Coach Nikki

Following is a transcript of the video: Have you ever wondered about how to do a really deep clean inside for anal play? Well, in this video I am going to talk about one way to do a deeper Enema or a higher Enema. I am sex coach Nikki and… Continue reading

August is Anal Sex Month With Sex Coach Nikki!

It’s Anal August once again and I have some fun stuff to share. Online I have an excellent full color pdf on the Art of Anal Pleasure that you can sign up for at right here ===> You will also get a series of emails directly to your inbox with… Continue reading

Anal, Bali, Masturbation | Checking in

Anal Update The “Art Of Anal Pleasure” class was AMAZING.  We had a full house and 2 amazing demonstration models.  One was a gentleman who was a very experienced anal player who got to have his limits stretched by having an audience view his play.  The second was a beautiful… Continue reading

Delayed Ejaculation

Email Nikki@NikkiLundberg.com to more information on sex coaching and masturbation coaching. Delayed ejaculation is also known as retarded ejaculation or impaired ejaculation. This is whenever is it taking you longer than you would like to ejaculate and you are frustrated. You may also be getting tired or sore from sex… Continue reading

Masturbation Benefits

There are a TON of benefits to be had from masturbation and you can exponentially increase how many you experience by practicing mindful masturbation. My favorite benefit is stress relief. Our daily lives are filled with stress from many sources and with masturbation you can use erotic energy to move… Continue reading

How To Give A Great Blow Job

How To Give A Great Blow Job Make sure you are grounded in your body and you use the sensations in your body to guide you just as much if not more than his cues. Focus on having a good experience instead of giving a good performance. Consider going goalless…. Continue reading

Monogamy Vs. Non-Monogamy | Social Conditioning

The hardest part of “coming out” was to acknowledge and accept that I am not monogamous to myself. I felt a lot of judgment for myself because of the stories/programming/conditioning I had around what monogamy and non-monogamy meant. Their meaning didn’t match up to my definition of self and that… Continue reading

Coming Out As Polyamorous

My husband and I began living a polyamorous lifestyle in spring of 2013. We are consensually non-monogamous. We both date casually as well as carrying on serious romantic commitments with others. We agree to always let each other know where we are, to make sure our daughter is taken care… Continue reading