Sexploration & Sexperience
Or as I like to say, “Sexploration & Sexperience!”
Today was very successful for my couple. They were only in town for 2 days, so we did a 5 hour intensive.
Here’s what we accomplished together.
Improving Communication as a Couple
Lots of communication gaps were filled in, and we discussed different personality and communication styles.
I recommended the book The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts by Gary Chapman to her.
Since he is an entrepreneur and is more familiar with personality types, I recommended he review the DISC personality types.
Him being a high DI and her being a full S, I encouraged him to take responsibility for applying what he knows about that kind of thing to this relationship.
Overcoming Fear and Shame
She was able to overcome (or begin to overcome) her negative beliefs.
We talked about how she gets to choose what to believe. If something is making her feel bad, she can choose to change it and feel better about it.
We talked about how to do that.
I walked through that process myself with my mentor Shelby Collinge.
Yes, fear and shame can be paralyzing. Walking through it and finding the freedom and truth inside is a-freakin-mazing!
Exploring Massage, Pleasure, and Kink
Massage and Sensual Touch
He learned the basics of massage and sensual massage.
Exploring the G-Spot
We found her G-spot. Yes, after 20+ years of marriage, they were both unsure of the exact location.
I think her orgasms will be going to the next level now!
Bondage and Sensation Play
We covered some basic bondage techniques.
I showed him a chest harness and told him to look up Twisted Monk to learn more about erotic rope bondage and to get a starter kit.
Then we played with clothes pins and clamps 😉
Spanking Techniques
He improved his spanking technique. There is a way to do it that stimulates the entire groin!
Anal Pleasure
They learned how to make anal sex enjoyable. I taught them the techniques I use in my educational videos.
Learning Through Demonstration
My male partner came about halfway through the session.
We did some demonstration, and he shared his experience about his sexual growth.
Continuing the Exploration at Home
We developed a plan to keep the communication and kink going once they get home 🙂
I am so grateful and honored to have had this experience with them.
I let them know they could email me if they had any follow-up questions.
If they liked my style of working with them and wanted ongoing mentoring, I would love to work with them via phone and email for a reasonable fee.
Interested in a Couples Intensive?
If you are interested in a 5 hour intensive, please contact me.
Nikki
Email: Nikki@NikkiLundberg.com
