Preparing for Comfortable Anal Penetration
I get a ton of questions about how to make anal sex feel good.
First of all, it’s not for everyone. Second of all, it may take practice (for both giver and receiver) before it’s pleasurable.
There are a lot of skills and techniques you can develop. But there are also “helper” items that I like to use even now that I know what I’m doing 🙂
These are a couple of different items I’ve used when preparing for anal penetration.
Anal Relaxing Sprays
First, I use an organic anal relaxing spray like the one I originally featured in this article.
This one says “for women,” but that is just marketing. The one for men has the same things in it.
When you spray this on, you usually feel a warming sensation. It may even be tingly.
This passes rather quickly, leaving you more aroused than when you started. For a lot of women, it makes them instantly wetter.
In my experience, this takes 5 to 10 minutes to go into full effect.
A note about safety: These products were marketed as relaxing rather than numbing. However, ingredients vary, and some products may irritate sensitive tissue or reduce your ability to notice discomfort.
Always check the ingredients and stop if you experience pain or burning.
Choosing a Lubricant
After that’s feeling good on the exterior, I move on to using a lube for the interior. The product I originally used also contained ingredients marketed as organic relaxers.
I would work this into the butt and give it a few minutes to do its magic.
Don’t get these products on your pussy or cock, or mouth. In my experience, they can feel funny and might make it harder to climax.
I also find that I like to add a bit more wetness to the mix.
That’s when I mix in the JO H2O lubricant. I like mixing the water based lube in. It’s also handy for more sensitive vaginal sex 🙂
When combining products, check that their ingredients are compatible and appropriate for the intended use. Avoid products that cause irritation or reduce sensation.
Finding What Works for You
If you have some lubes and products you like, feel free to share. These are what have worked best for me 🙂