Learning how to talk dirty doesn’t have to be complicated. Sometimes the easiest way to start is simply to describe what you’re feeling, seeing, and enjoying in the moment.
The following advice comes from an email I received asking for tips on talking dirty.
Start by Describing What You’re Feeling
Tips for talking dirty: I usually verbalize what’s actually going on.
I talk about how much I like the feeling of him sliding in and out of my pussy. I look at his dick and talk about what I see.
Find Out What Turns Your Partner On
If you can find out more about what turns him on, you can incorporate that too.
You mentioned being more aggressive, but does that mean he wants domination?
If so, then you can talk about how good it feels to be using him, to feel him under you, and things like that.
Explore Dominant and Humiliating Dirty Talk
Does he want humiliation?
You can incorporate telling him about how naughty and nasty he is for even wanting you to talk dirty to him.
Call him names like pervert, slut, and whore. Point out how sick he is because of what type of porn he watches.
A note about consent: Before experimenting with humiliation or degrading language, talk with your partner about what words and scenarios turn them on and what feels uncomfortable or off limits. Not everyone enjoys this kind of dirty talk, even if they enjoy other forms of domination.
If you’re interested in exploring these dynamics further, read my article BDSM for Beginners: Understanding Bondage, Dominance, and Submission.
Practice Talking Dirty With Confidence
I hope that helps a bit. If you would like more specific tips, you could always sign up for a lesson.
Exploring different sensations can also help you discover what you enjoy describing during intimate moments. You can find more ideas in Sensation Play for Beginners.
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