With all the gratitude posts I see the continual neutering of our lives.
I get it, we need to be appropriate and acceptable. I’m lucky I don’t always have to be.
I’m going to share my erotic gratitude list here.
For me, it will be salacious and lascivious compared to most gratitude posts, although I will still need to censor myself a little.
Want to share your erotic gratitudes or explore these ideas more deeply? If you’d like support exploring your relationship with pleasure, send me a message about booking an exploratory session.
Sensations Worth Celebrating
- ❤️ My ability to feel physical sensation
- ❤️ My ability to feel energetic sensation
- ❤️ My ability to write. Writing about my erotic experiences lets me relive them.
- ❤️ My body’s ability to open
- ❤️ The sensation of stretching
- ❤️ The sensation of being full
- ❤️ The sensation of friction
- ❤️ Lubrication
- ❤️ Ejaculate
- ❤️ Anal nerve endings
- ❤️ Clitoris built just for pleasure
- ❤️ Hands as erotic tools
- ❤️ Touch that is soft and light like air flowing over my skin
- ❤️ Touch that is firm and grounding that makes me feel more connected to the earth below me
- ❤️ Feeling like I can rest my body and receive
- ❤️ Touch that flows and swirls and is liquid and cool
- ❤️ Hot touch that burns and bites and stings waking up my skin
- ❤️ Full fisted hair pulling
- ❤️ Being so sensitive that I can feel touch that isn’t in direct contact with my skin
Desire, Intimacy, and Connection
- ❤️ Feeling a lover’s body open up and accept me more deeply than ever before
- ❤️ The look on a lover’s face when their mind has been expanded in a new way, never to return to the old way
- ❤️ Redefining sx to include so much of life
- ❤️ Understanding how much pleasure is available
- ❤️ The desire to penetrate and fill up
- ❤️ The desire to dominate and force and hurt (in the most pleasurable way possible)
- ❤️ The desire to be filled
- ❤️ The desire to be pursued
- ❤️ The desire to be handled
- ❤️ Lovers who trust me to guide them to new levels of ecstasy
- ❤️ White hot desire to have a lover like that for myself
- ❤️ Connecting my heart to my genitals
- ❤️ Feeling my genitals and my heart open and expand
- ❤️ Holding space
- ❤️ My heart
Erotic Play and Self-Expression
- ❤️ Toys of all shapes and varieties to make our bodies feel all kinds of ways
- ❤️ Erotic literature
- ❤️ P0rn
- ❤️ Body worship
- ❤️ The ability to make someone peak through using my mouth on their feet
- ❤️ Being an exhibitionist
- ❤️ Being seen in an erotic state
- ❤️ Being a witness
- ❤️ Being a voyeur
- ❤️ Shame that feels heavy and prickly and drives us into the shadows to play
- ❤️ Role play
- ❤️ Power exchange
- ❤️ Play parties and group experiences
- ❤️ Curves
- ❤️ Oral pleasure
- ❤️ The thrill of breath play, choking, etc.
- ❤️ My brain and open-mindedness
Explore Your Relationship With Pleasure
There are so many ways to experience pleasure, and everyone has their own preferences. You can explore more about the many forms of sexual pleasure and discover what feels good to you.
If you enjoy exploring your fantasies, you might also like my article about the benefits of reading erotica.
In addition, you can explore how mindfulness practice can help you become more aware of your experiences and sensations.
Want Support Exploring Pleasure?
Feel like you could benefit from some support around finding erotic gratitude? Send me a message about booking an exploratory session.
If you’d like to explore further, learn more about working with me as a sex coach.