Want to know how to give better oral sex? One of the most important things you can do is pay attention to your own body and the sensations you’re experiencing.
In this video, I share my number one tip for giving head. It’s about becoming more present, sensitive, and connected rather than worrying about doing everything perfectly.
How to Give Better Oral Sex
My #1 tip is to use your own body as a guide for giving pleasure. In order to do this you must get centered and sensitive to your own sensations. You need to focus on the experience, not the performance.
When you’re focused on performance, it’s easy to get caught up in thoughts about whether you’re doing things correctly. Instead, bring your attention back to what you’re feeling in your own body.
Notice your breathing, your level of relaxation, and the sensations that arise as you connect with your partner. You can also pay attention to your partner’s responses and communicate about what feels good.
This kind of awareness is something you can develop through a regular mindfulness practice.
Focus on Pleasure, Not Performance
Giving pleasure doesn’t have to be about following a perfect technique. It’s also about being present, paying attention, and enjoying the experience together.
The same approach can be useful when learning how to give your partner a sensual massage. You can explore touch while staying connected to your own sensations and your partner’s responses.
If you’re interested in exploring other ways to give pleasure, you might also enjoy my article on how to include genital massage in a sensual massage.
Do you have any questions about giving head? Ask in the comments below or send me an email at nikki@nikkilundberg.com.