I have to be honest, I haven’t felt very sexy lately. I’ve been a little sick with congestion and such.
I’m going to see the doctor today and most likely will get some medicine. Yay!
That brings me to the question: What do you do about sex when you’re not feeling well?
Sex and Pleasure When You’re Not Feeling Well
Last year, I broke my ankle. I didn’t feel very sexy then either.
However, both then and now, I still experienced receiving sexual desire and pleasure and being horny.
I’ve found I need to be even more open-minded to the sexual possibilities. That way, I can experience sexual pleasure while dealing with another problem.
Relaxing is even more important.
When I’m having partner sex, I let my partner know what’s going on with me before we begin to play. This way, they aren’t surprised if I’m cranky or over-sensitive.
I also take it even easier on myself than normal. That means fewer expectations, fewer goals, and more being in the moment.
And if the pleasure doesn’t flow, I accept that too. I don’t try to force myself through it or judge myself for it.
Self-examination can also help us understand our relationship with pleasure. I explore this further in Treasures From Self-Examination and Pleasure Practices.
Finding Gratitude During Thanksgiving
Happy Thanksgiving!
Here in the USA, it’s Thanksgiving week. Even in the midst of being a little under the weather, I have LOTS to be grateful for!
I am grateful for my family, friends, and clients. I’m also grateful for everyone in my email community.
I am grateful for my sex and sexuality and my freedom to express it as much as I do.
I’m grateful for those who have decided to have some fun and share in the Naked Gratitude Project.
That project will be running through the end of the month, so you can still join in if you’re interested.
Coming Up: My Plans and Projects
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Anaheim: Next week, I am going to be in Anaheim, California, Wednesday through Friday. I will be available for in-person sessions in the evenings and possibly Saturday during the day.
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Nikki’s Lessons: I’ve been working on revamping NikkisLessons.com. I’ve decided the videos will soon be available for individual purchase at NikkiLundberg.com. As a result, NikkisLessons.com will no longer be a video membership website.
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New Membership Program: I’ll be writing more about this soon, but I’m creating a monthly membership program. My goal is to better serve you and your needs.
You can get porn anywhere! I want to provide you with the most realistic, easy, and fun ways to expand your pleasure.
If you’re interested in helping with the creation of this program, let me know. You’ll get lots of extra benefits and discounts on top of excellent sexual pleasure education and instruction.