Are You Ready for Couples Sex Coaching?
How do you (and your partner) know if you’re ready for couples sex coaching?
- If you’ve had fantasies and curiosities for a long time and haven’t been able to move forward.
- If you want to add a little zing to your sex life, to spice things up.
- If otherwise, things are terrific, but you would like a distraction from the everyday grind and want to be distracted together.
Finding ways to reconnect can make a difference. You can also explore how to make time for intimacy in your relationship.
Preparing for a Couples Sex Coaching Session
In preparation for a couples session, I find out how long you’ve been together and what your current relationship is like.
I also ask if you’ve discussed all the various foreseeable outcomes of our time together. I gather a short sexual history for each of you.
We troubleshoot in advance the main issues that could crop up as a result of working with me. We also discuss how to deal with them. We do this via email.
Although it’s ideal to work with me for a series of sessions, many of my clients come in from out of town. They can only see me in person once.
In that case, we can have sessions over the phone or Zoom before and after.
Over the next week or so, I will be sharing the process I recently went through with a couple that worked with me.
What Happens During a Couples Sex Coaching Session?
I get to the room and introduce myself. I talk a bit about my week and my background to set the tone of friendliness and support.
Through discussion with her, I determine her true level of comfort. Up until that point, I had only interacted with the husband through email.
I explain my boundaries and goals for the session.
I make sure she knows this session is about them and their pleasure, not mine.
I will be interactive only to their comfort level. At any time, that could increase or decrease, and that is okay.
We will have constant communication throughout the session. We check in on how they are feeling and let that be our guide.
Why Work With a Professional?
I explain to them that there are several reasons that bringing in a professional is a great choice:
- By having a session, you are putting your experience into a container that has a beginning and an end. Afterward, you can review what you liked and didn’t like. There’s not a lingering question of whether the experience was complete or not.
- You won’t be worried about any emotional romantic issues coming back to haunt your marriage.
- It’s a more relaxing situation than trying to pick somebody up in a bar. You don’t have to wonder what you’re going to get, what their skill level is sexually, or what their motives are.
- Whatever pleasure I give to one partner, the other partner gets the credit for it.
Exploring the Couple’s Interests
We review their interests as a couple.
He loves massage and all touch, so he will be getting a full-body sensual rubdown.
If you’d like to explore this together, learn how to give your partner a sensual massage.
Then they want to review different handjob and blowjob techniques.
For more ideas, explore how to include genital massage in a sensual massage.
For her turn, she wants to be pleasured.
She’s never “been with a woman” before, and this has been a very exciting idea for the two of them.
Interested in Couples Sex Coaching?
Interested in booking a session for couples sex coaching?
Text me to set up a time to talk or email me with your interest.
702-674-6606 – Text first to schedule.