Too Busy For Sex?

I have been making some updates to this site the last couple of days. I just realized that I haven’t written a blog post for over 2 months. Unbelievable!

I mean, I get lots of satisfaction from writing. It helps with all kinds of things: helping people, SEO, creating community, etc. Yet I went without.

When Life Gets Too Busy

Why?

I was too busy.

I kept putting it off. I forgot about it. When I did think of it, the time wasn’t right.

Does any of this sound familiar to you?

You put off something you know you like and benefit from due to seemingly good reasons. Before you know it, a very long time has passed.

The Same Thing Happens With Sex and Intimacy

This happens a lot with sex and intimacy. The obstacles are different for different people, but the result is the same: a feeling of having missed out.

Other feelings are overwhelm at the prospect of getting started up again. There may be embarrassment or shame for having dropped the ball. Anger and resentment at self for failing can come up too. Lots of negatives.

If this sounds familiar, you might enjoy my article How to Make Time for Intimacy in Your Relationship.

Acknowledge It and Move On

Acknowledge and move on.

As much as every day can be a new beginning, so can every hug, every show of affection, and every kind word.

Do what you need to do to start over.

For more ideas, read How to Improve Your Sex Life by Letting Go of the Past.

Having a hard time with that?

That’s where someone like me comes in. Find someone to talk to who can help you process through the crap and start fresh.

Someone who can help you identify your story or programming and break it up if it’s not working for you.

You can learn more about my approach in What to Expect When Working With Sex Coach Nikki.

That’s the process I’m going through now with all my websites. I’m grateful I don’t have to do that with my sex and sexuality (this time).