Spring is in the air, are you feeling creative? I am!

Spring Is in the Air! Are You Feeling Creative?

Do you feel any excitement stirring in your gut about new possibilities? Or maybe pain in your gut from irritations of things not done and projects not started?

I know I have both!

I have soooo many things I want to do. At the same time, I am remembering New Year’s resolutions I made just four months ago that only lasted three weeks.

There are other things that I have stuck to, and WOW, are those things exciting!

One is my position as The AdventureSex Mentor. I have put some new content on my site and prepared my first big event.

I am so stinkin’ excited!

Revisiting Your New Year’s Resolutions

As for the resolutions and goals I made at the beginning of the year, I know that I was either not in alignment with them or it was not the right time for them to manifest.

Now I am reevaluating those to see if I should recommit.

Setting Relationship and Sexuality Goals

My question for you is, did you make any goals around relationships or sexuality?

If you are in a relationship with a significant other, did you evaluate where you were and where you wanted to be?

And if so, did you have an action plan? Did you break down the goal into bite-sized pieces to make sure you had progress?

Did you talk to your partner and agree on these together?

If you’re thinking about your goals, you might enjoy my article on why you want better sex and how to start with your why.

Also, whether you are in a relationship or not, did you have any fantasies or desires when it came to performance or experiences?

I know a lot of people end up using their sexual needs as a distraction from daily life. They feel guilty about pursuing them and only turn to them as a break from the day-to-day grind.

Then, we feel guilty because we weren’t spending time the way we thought we should by being “productive.”

Making Pleasure Part of Your Life

I propose a new way of looking at it.

By including sexual goals with the rest of your life goals, you will feel a lot better about indulging in sensual activities.

You will even schedule them into your day and week!

Or you will just know that at some point almost every day, you are going to do something for your sexual pleasure, growth, and progress.

You will embrace it fully with no guilt or remorse!

For practical ideas, read my article on how to make time for intimacy in your relationship.

You can also explore how to get in the mood for sex as another way to make pleasure a priority.

My Own Relationship Goals

My husband and I both took a good hard look at our relationship in January.

There were some changes that had to be made. And we also set some goals.

These were sexual in nature, and I’m not sure if you want to hear them. But if you need some ideas, let me know.

If you set relationship and sexuality goals in January, I’d love to hear them!

I’d also like to know your successes and challenges.

Remember me as a resource when you are going through this process.

I promise total discretion and anonymity 🙂