Clitoris For Valentine’s Day

Happy Valentine’s Day!  Inspired by V-day this whole month I’ve been focusing on all things vagina – the vulva, squirting, and today I’ll be sharing a few things about the clitoris.

  1. Did you know the clitoris is the only organ in the human body created for the purpose of experiencing pleasure?  Yup, that’s all it does.
  2. The clitoris is actually fairly large.  The part that is visible is called the glans and that is only the very tip.
  3. The clitoris itself does not actually produce or secrete any type of fluid.

The Clitoris | For Pleasure Only

In many ways the clitoris can be compared to the penis but the one way it differs – the penis is a multi-tasker while the clitoris has only one purpose- to feel pleasure.  Many people are disconnected from their bodies in general and their genitals in particular.  Through relaxation and mindful masturbation we can get in touch with our genitals.  As a woman, you can tap into an immense amount of pleasure.  This is because of the clitoris and the way it works inside our bodies.

The Clitoris Is Bigger Than You Might Realize

Attached by ligaments at the pubic symphysis (where the two hip bones meet in the middle), the mons peeks out from beneath the protective hood.  beneath the hood is the body.  Once inside it separates into 2 sections.  Called the crus, these legs extend the length of the labia and encircle the vaginal canal creating the corpus cavernosum.  Then, the clitoris has another extension on each side called the crura.  This leg extends down through the perineum and even alongside the anus attaching to the pudendal nerve.

Here are pictures showing what I’m talking about:

MRI clitoris side view from http://blog.museumofsex.com/the-internal-clitoris/

MRI clitoris side view from museumofsex.com

Clitoris drawn from side.  Pic from http://blog.museumofsex.com/the-internal-clitoris/

Clitoris drawn from side. Pic from museumofsex.com

MRI clitoris top view.  Image from http://blog.museumofsex.com/the-internal-clitoris/

MRI clitoris top view. Image from museumofsex.com

Clitoris drawn from top.  Image from http://blog.museumofsex.com/the-internal-clitoris/

Clitoris drawn from top. Image from museumofsex.com

Image from http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/5013866.stm

Image from news.bbc.co.uk

Clitoris drawn from side at rest.  Image from http://blog.museumofsex.com/the-internal-clitoris/

Clitoris drawn from side at rest. Image from museumofsex.com

The Clitoris Does Not Produce Fluid

The vagina secrets many types of fluid, and urine comes from the urethra, but many mistakenly assume that the clitoris produces some type of fluid as well.  The entire vaginal area is made up of erectile tissue (much like a penis) and it has an area of spongy tissue called vestibular bulbs or skene’s glands.  These become engorged during arousal – like the penis – and this is where the ejaculate comes from.  These glands run along side the clitoris below the surface of the labia.  During high arousal and with the right kind of pressure they can release fluid that is very similar to the prostatic fluid created in the male prostate.  The ducts for these glands exit into the opening of the urethra – the opening of which is below the clitoris and just inside the introitus (opening) of the vagina.

Clitoris and bulbs/skene's glands

Clitoris and bulbs/skene’s glands

Why would you want to know all this?  The more aware you are (whether you are the one with the pussy or the one loving on the pussy) the better you will be able to stimulate that pussy.  Just knowing all this is going on under the surface will influence how you treat the area and key you in more deeply to the experience which makes for more pleasure.  And that’s what great sex is all about, right?!

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Female Ejaculation | Squirting Orgasm | Class Video

Pencil illustration from "Sex for One" by Betty Dodson, 1986 for female ejaculation post

Pencil illustration from “Sex for One” by Betty Dodson, 1986

Happy February!  In honor of V-day (Valentine’s Day) I’m going to focus on the vulva and vagina this month.  I often talk about the anatomy of pleasure and I even made up a new word – vaginatomy!

Last week I hosted a female squirting orgasm class/party.  The party part didn’t really happen but the class was a huge success!  I also video taped it and am about to start burning copies… If you’re interested in getting one read to the end of this email to find out how.

Female ejaculation is so interesting to so many – I think it’s because it seems so mysterious.  And because not every woman does it.  Almost any female can do it (there is the very rare exception).  While 10% or so squirt without trying and the rest can learn if they want to.  It’s a matter of retraining your vaginal muscles to push out during an orgasm instead of pulling in.  That pushing out applies pressure to what are called the Skene’s Glands or vestibules – pockets of spongy tissue just below the surface of the vulva on either side of the vaginal opening.  The pressure from pushing can be increased with your fingers either by externally rubbing in a downward motion from the clit area to the vaginal opening or by internally rubbing the front of the vaginal wall pulling out in the “come hither” motion.  The fluid exits from the opening of the urethra.

female ejaculation coachMany women may be ejaculating without even knowing it.  The amount of fluid can vary from a few ounces to cups at the extreme.  It’s tough to notice smaller amounts because they get lost in the shuffle of pussy juice, lube and cum.  Also, the fluid often doesn’t squirt – it comes out as more of a gush.

Ladies:

Do you squirt/ejaculate?  Do you have any experiences you like to share?  Do you have any questions you’d like to ask?  Would you like to share any pictures or videos?

Men:

What do you think about female ejaculation?

Female Squirting Orgasm Video

This DVD will featured the half hour class followed by the half hour demo.  I’m also going to put on some clips of my other videos that show squirting.  The retail price with be $39.95 but you can pre-order it by Wednesday for $19.95.

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