Being clean and feeling comfortable in your body can make a big difference when you’re getting ready to prepare for intimacy. Feeling comfortable can make it easier to bring more presence and pleasure into the experience. While there can be something kinky about being with someone right after they get… Continue reading
If you want to improve your sex life, one of the best places to start is with a simple question: Why? Why do you want better sex? Getting clear about what you want is the first step toward creating a sex life that actually feels fulfilling to you. It might… Continue reading
Originally published in August 2016. This article preserves a historical record of my Anal August events and educational offerings. The workshops and registration opportunities described below have ended. It’s Anal August once again, and I have some fun stuff to share. Anal August Online Resources I have an excellent full… Continue reading
Spring Cleaning for Sexual Wellness With April comes spring cleaning, and I like to do it with a twist! For all lovers of anal stimulation, I recommend experimenting with enemas, either before intimate sessions or during, for added sensation and another prop for role-play and power exchange. We’ll be talking… Continue reading
Why Anal and Sex Toy Cleanliness Matters There are some very specific things you can do to be clean and safe with anal play and using sex toys. Good hygiene can help reduce irritation and the spread of bacteria. It can also make exploring anal pleasure more comfortable and enjoyable…. Continue reading
May’s topic is spring cleaning. First, we’ll be talking about shaving the vagina, or more accurately, shaving the pubic hair around the vulva. Here are some PG-rated tips for you to follow. 5 Tips for Shaving Your Pubic Hair Start out clean. Wash the external area thoroughly with warm water… Continue reading