A Fresh Start For Your Sex Life In 3 Steps

It’s December, and I love it when a new month starts! I know we can start fresh anytime, and for some reason, turning to a new calendar month helps a little more. It’s like I mentally and emotionally loosen my energetic grip a bit. Why Start Fresh With Your Sex… Continue reading →

Too Busy For Sex?

too busy for sex? Sex Coach Nikki can help

I have been making some updates to this site the last couple of days. I just realized that I haven’t written a blog post for over 2 months. Unbelievable! I mean, I get lots of satisfaction from writing. It helps with all kinds of things: helping people, SEO, creating community,… Continue reading →

Lingerie, Sensual Touch, and Anal Play: An Erotic Story

Lingerie, sensual touch, and anal play can bring attention to the details of an intimate experience. Slow down and notice every detail of your intimate time together. Doing things like using unusual positions and lingerie will help bring your attention to the details and get the most arousal possible. This… Continue reading →

Oral Pleasure and Deep Throating: An Erotic Story

Erotic stories can inspire fantasies, spark conversations, and introduce new ideas for intimate exploration. I’m sharing this experience to give you ideas to explore, topics to discuss, and possibly new activities to try. An Erotic Story of Oral Pleasure I came into the room. We started kissing and pressing our… Continue reading →

Internal Conflict

sexuality inner conflict

My biggest source of internal conflict as a teen and young adult when it came to sex was this – how can something that feels so good be wrong? I had been taught that it’s best to abstain from sex until marriage.  But I didn’t.  And I felt awful about… Continue reading →

Annilingus Discussion On Facebook

I had to share because I get these questions a lot!  Scroll down to see the conversation in a larger font. Q:  Do you prefer Annilingus? Nikki Lundberg hmmm… depends on the partner and the situation. Sometimes it’s hotter but it doesn’t necessarily feel better (receiving). Giving is good when… Continue reading →

Veterans Special

One thing that’s not discussed so often when it comes to veterans integrating back into civilian life is their sex and sexuality.  I know from the clients that I’ve worked with that it is a big deal and usually they suffer in silence.  They are dealing with all the usual… Continue reading →