Contrast Brings Clarity

Why I’m Taking Down Nikki’s Lessons Why am I taking down Nikkislessons.com? The short answer is that it is not fulfilling its purpose and I feel it is also confusing people about what I offer as a sex coach. For those of you who are new to me and my… Continue reading →

Living With Integrity

What Integrity Means to Me One of the major drivers in my life is integrity; specifically integrity with myself. For me, integrity encompasses self-reflection, self-honesty, and humility. I’m writing about it because I have come to realize I’ve gotten out of integrity with myself. I’ve changed and grown. However, I’m… Continue reading →

Overcoming Sexual Guilt: A Couples Sex Coaching Experience

Overcoming sexual guilt can be an important part of couples sex coaching. After exploring new ways of experiencing pleasure together, one couple discovered that their emotional reactions were just as important as the physical experience. Processing Feelings After a Sexual Experience We all got cleaned up and dressed and sat… Continue reading →

It’s Okay To Have What You Want

make a list of what you would be, do and have if time and money were no object

It’s okay to have what you want. Few people operate like this. Usually, we feel like we have to justify and rationalize what we want. We have some sort of belief that we are only allowed so much of what we want. Don’t think this is true for you? Try… Continue reading →