My biggest source of internal conflict as a teen and young adult when it came to sex was this – how can something that feels so good be wrong? I had been taught that it’s best to abstain from sex until marriage. But I didn’t. And I felt awful about… Continue reading
Spring Cleaning for Sexual Wellness With April comes spring cleaning, and I like to do it with a twist! For all lovers of anal stimulation, I recommend experimenting with enemas, either before intimate sessions or during, for added sensation and another prop for role-play and power exchange. We’ll be talking… Continue reading
I had to share because I get these questions a lot! Scroll down to see the conversation in a larger font. Q: Do you prefer Annilingus? Nikki Lundberg hmmm… depends on the partner and the situation. Sometimes it’s hotter but it doesn’t necessarily feel better (receiving). Giving is good when… Continue reading
Understanding sexual orientation isn’t always easy. Sometimes people question their sexual orientation when they discover unexpected attractions or experience something new. For example, I received a question about being straight, bisexual, or heteroflexible. Here is the question, along with my original response. The Question: What Is My Sexual Orientation? Question:… Continue reading
All the kinky people in the community are probably thinking about enemas, douches, and the like. While I would be happy to share info on those topics (just ask), that is not what I had in mind. Spring Cleaning for Your Sexual Beliefs I am actually going to talk about… Continue reading
Happy Valentine’s Day! Inspired by V-day this whole month I’ve been focusing on all things vagina – the vulva, squirting, and today I’ll be sharing a few things about the clitoris. Did you know the clitoris is the only organ in the human body created for the purpose of experiencing… Continue reading
The word vulva means the outside portion of a woman’s vagina. The word victory is defined as: 1: the overcoming of an enemy or antagonist 2: achievement of mastery or success in a struggle or endeavor against odds or difficulties I think many of us approach pussies as something to… Continue reading
Happy February! In honor of V-day (Valentine’s Day), I’m going to focus on the vulva and vagina this month. I often talk about the anatomy of pleasure, and I even made up a new word: vaginatomy! Exploring Female Ejaculation Last week, I hosted a female squirting orgasm class/party. The party… Continue reading
If you’re looking for ways to spice things up, then this is definitely one of them: add oil! Here’s a story from The Adventures Of A Las Vegas Masseuse that demonstrates how you can incorporate oil for bedroom fun. Enjoy! For more ideas, check out How to Give Your Partner… Continue reading
5 Tips And Tricks For Hotter Make Out Sessions Try a different location. So many of us get stuck in the habit of doing the same things in the same places. For this session, Telly and I made out on the couch (instead of the bed) and that changed the… Continue reading