A Fresh Start For Your Sex Life In 3 Steps

It’s December, and I love it when a new month starts! I know we can start fresh anytime, and for some reason, turning to a new calendar month helps a little more. It’s like I mentally and emotionally loosen my energetic grip a bit. Why Start Fresh With Your Sex… Continue reading →

How to Talk Dirty: Tips for Making Your Partner Hot

Learning how to talk dirty doesn’t have to be complicated. Sometimes the easiest way to start is simply to describe what you’re feeling, seeing, and enjoying in the moment. The following advice comes from an email I received asking for tips on talking dirty. Start by Describing What You’re Feeling… Continue reading →

Prostate Massage and Anal Pleasure: An Erotic Story

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Prostate massage and anal pleasure can be part of an intimate experience filled with desire, arousal, and exploration. Be courageous and have fun while leaning into the sensations of desire and arousal. This is the final installment of my erotic story. You can read Part 2 here. An Erotic Experience… Continue reading →

Spring Cleaning With A Twist

Spring Cleaning for Sexual Wellness With April comes spring cleaning, and I like to do it with a twist! For all lovers of anal stimulation, I recommend experimenting with enemas, either before intimate sessions or during, for added sensation and another prop for role-play and power exchange. We’ll be talking… Continue reading →

Annilingus Discussion On Facebook

I had to share because I get these questions a lot!  Scroll down to see the conversation in a larger font. Q:  Do you prefer Annilingus? Nikki Lundberg hmmm… depends on the partner and the situation. Sometimes it’s hotter but it doesn’t necessarily feel better (receiving). Giving is good when… Continue reading →

Am I Straight, Bisexual, or Heteroflexible? Understanding Sexual Orientation

Understanding sexual orientation isn’t always easy. Sometimes people question their sexual orientation when they discover unexpected attractions or experience something new. For example, I received a question about being straight, bisexual, or heteroflexible. Here is the question, along with my original response. The Question: What Is My Sexual Orientation? Question:… Continue reading →

Clitoris For Valentine’s Day

Happy Valentine’s Day!  Inspired by V-day this whole month I’ve been focusing on all things vagina – the vulva, squirting, and today I’ll be sharing a few things about the clitoris. Did you know the clitoris is the only organ in the human body created for the purpose of experiencing… Continue reading →

Vulva Victory!

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The word vulva means the outside portion of a woman’s vagina. The word victory is defined as: 1: the overcoming of an enemy or antagonist 2: achievement of mastery or success in a struggle or endeavor against odds or difficulties I think many of us approach pussies as something to… Continue reading →

Female Ejaculation | Squirting Orgasm | Class Video

Happy February! In honor of V-day (Valentine’s Day), I’m going to focus on the vulva and vagina this month. I often talk about the anatomy of pleasure, and I even made up a new word: vaginatomy! Exploring Female Ejaculation Last week, I hosted a female squirting orgasm class/party. The party… Continue reading →