Why I’m Taking Down Nikki’s Lessons Why am I taking down Nikkislessons.com? The short answer is that it is not fulfilling its purpose and I feel it is also confusing people about what I offer as a sex coach. For those of you who are new to me and my… Continue reading
It’s OK to feel overwhelmed. It’s Ok to feel. Overwhelmed. It’s OK. Feel overwhelmed. OK, feel overwhelmed. And just like that, I felt much better! Why We Feel Overwhelmed Sometimes it’s hard to make a decision. There are so many choices and so many things to consider. The thought of… Continue reading
I love teaching the art of anal pleasure and how to have anal sex almost as much as I enjoy giving and receiving it! Anal and prostate massage are some of my specialties. With my background as a masseuse I have hundreds of hours of experience with anal massage and… Continue reading
Are you stressed out because you or your partner don’t have enough time for true intimacy and connection? As a sex coach I hear about it all the time from people who attend my classes “their sex is great, when they get to have it.” They make the time to… Continue reading
Are your muscles causing you pain during anal sex? Hi I’m Sex Coach Nikki and I have been doing sensual and erotic massage for nine years. I can tell you that tight pelvic floor muscles are the number one cause of pain during any kind of anal sex or stimulation…. Continue reading
Why Relationships Make Us Feel Vulnerable Romance is the most tender part of many people’s lives and often the most difficult to talk about. This is where we can feel most vulnerable – not only personally but also as a unit with our loves (both family and romantic). We feel… Continue reading
Why Erections Can Be Difficult During Group Sex Guys – Are you having a hard time getting it up or keeping it up in a group sex situation? If so, this is totally normal and something you can work through. As a sex coach and swinger, I know that for… Continue reading
Want to know how to give better oral sex? One of the most important things you can do is pay attention to your own body and the sensations you’re experiencing. In this video, I share my number one tip for giving head. It’s about becoming more present, sensitive, and connected… Continue reading
How to Give Yourself a Deeper Enema Have you ever wondered how to do a really deep clean inside for anal play? In this article, I’m going to talk about one way to do a deeper or higher enema. There’s a lot of controversy around high enemas, whether they’re really… Continue reading
Anal Update The “Art Of Anal Pleasure” class was AMAZING. We had a full house and 2 amazing demonstration models. One was a gentleman who was a very experienced anal player. He got to have his limits stretched by having an audience view his play. The second was a beautiful… Continue reading