Insights from personal inventory and pleasure practices. This is an example of what comes out of the work I teach. I’ll be sharing about it during my upcoming (free) Female Pleasure Challenge next week. Want support exploring your own pleasure and self-discovery? Learn more about working with me. Love, Connection,… Continue reading
Ladies – why is it so important to know about your pleasure anyway? Like – what’s the big deal? I’ll share a bit about my story to explain why I think it is so important. As a kid and teen, I always sought out physical connection and exploration… Continue reading
Self-Pleasure as a Practice Photo by Alexander Krivitskiy from Pexels My self pleasure session this morning started with the desire to cum, to relieve the pressure built up from erotic experiences and from life. This week has been filled with pool parties, clients, and family. Anticipating another big get-together this… Continue reading
It’s amazing to think we are starting the second half of 2021!!! I’ve been feeling so grateful for the blessings and privileges in my life and I know one of the main ways I can keep that powerful energy flowing is by being of service as a sex coach. I’ve… Continue reading
Hi! I hope all is well for you and yours! I’m so happy to be back home. I was in Mexico for two weeks at tantra training. The first week was Tantric Arts Training for Women Practitioners and I learned about so much including chakras, singing to chakras, five elements… Continue reading
When Things Work Out Of course, I love it when things work out, don’t you? When there is a desire, maybe even an ache, a yearning And you can just be, totally present, broadcasting your true self And your true desire And somehow everything aligns Someone else’s desire compliments yours… Continue reading
Facing the Fear of Change Starting is the hardest part. How to change, how to navigate the darkness, the anger. How to let go of the old. Knowing it no longer applies but also having been shaped and molded by it. Can you let it go? Wanting to come from… Continue reading
Why I’m Taking Down Nikki’s Lessons Why am I taking down Nikkislessons.com? The short answer is that it is not fulfilling its purpose and I feel it is also confusing people about what I offer as a sex coach. For those of you who are new to me and my… Continue reading
Understanding Shame There are many layers to shame. The definition of shame is a painful feeling of humiliation or distress caused by the consciousness of wrong or foolish behavior. We, as humans, have some basic instincts that make us susceptible to shame. First, pain motivates us! We want to avoid… Continue reading
It’s OK to feel overwhelmed. It’s Ok to feel. Overwhelmed. It’s OK. Feel overwhelmed. OK, feel overwhelmed. And just like that, I felt much better! Why We Feel Overwhelmed Sometimes it’s hard to make a decision. There are so many choices and so many things to consider. The thought of… Continue reading