Want to know how to give better oral sex? One of the most important things you can do is pay attention to your own body and the sensations you’re experiencing. In this video, I share my number one tip for giving head. It’s about becoming more present, sensitive, and connected… Continue reading
How to Give Yourself a Deeper Enema Have you ever wondered how to do a really deep clean inside for anal play? In this article, I’m going to talk about one way to do a deeper or higher enema. There’s a lot of controversy around high enemas, whether they’re really… Continue reading
Originally published in August 2016. This article preserves a historical record of my Anal August events and educational offerings. The workshops and registration opportunities described below have ended. It’s Anal August once again, and I have some fun stuff to share. Anal August Online Resources I have an excellent full… Continue reading
Anal Update The “Art Of Anal Pleasure” class was AMAZING. We had a full house and 2 amazing demonstration models. One was a gentleman who was a very experienced anal player. He got to have his limits stretched by having an audience view his play. The second was a beautiful… Continue reading
Email Nikki@NikkiLundberg.com for more information on sex coaching and masturbation coaching. What Is Delayed Ejaculation? Delayed ejaculation is also known as impaired ejaculation. This happens when ejaculation takes longer than you would like and causes frustration. You may also get tired or sore from sex or masturbation before you ejaculate…. Continue reading
What Are the Benefits of Masturbation? There are a TON of benefits to be had from masturbation, and you can exponentially increase how many you experience by practicing mindful masturbation. My favorite benefit is stress relief. Our daily lives are filled with stress from many sources. With masturbation, you can… Continue reading
How to Give a Great Blow Job Make sure you are grounded in your body. Use the sensations in your body to guide you just as much, if not more, than his cues. Focus on having a good experience instead of giving a good performance. Consider going goalless. Practice, practice,… Continue reading
Coming Out as Non-Monogamous The hardest part of “coming out” was to acknowledge and accept that I am not monogamous to myself. I felt a lot of judgment for myself because of the stories/programming/conditioning I had around what monogamy and non-monogamy meant. Their meaning didn’t match up to my definition… Continue reading
Our Journey Into Polyamory My husband and I began living a polyamorous lifestyle in spring of 2013. We are consensually non-monogamous. We both date casually as well as carrying on serious romantic commitments with others. We agree to always let each other know where we are and to make sure… Continue reading
I started masturbating very young, realizing that it felt good to put pressure and friction “down there”. There was a time when I started to notice climax. And then I started experimenting with penetration. As I became sexually active I continued to masturbate. I only noticed climax during masturbation. I… Continue reading