Inner Being Wisdom – Truths and “Downloads” From Sex Coach Nikki

Someone will be interested in you or not. The best thing you can do is be yourself as much as possible. It doesn’t matter who you are with or what you are doing as long as you are being yourself. Learn to give yourself the attention and adoration you desire…. Continue reading

Self Care and Self Pleasure with Sex Coach Nikki

Do you think it is truly possible to put self-care, including self-pleasure, first? I see it espoused all the time – to prioritize yourself.  Take care of yourself.  I move in circles where they prioritize pleasure above everything else.  Use it as a foundation and a basis for life and… Continue reading

Mindfulness Practice with Sex Coach Nikki

What is your favorite mindfulness practice? I just had a great meditation! There are so many practices that have us get into the present moment. The particular practice I just did is called existential kink. You can google it for more info but I’ll share my experience here. See –… Continue reading

What are you waiting to start?

New year’s resolutions usually fail. While I do like to set intentions and goals and play with the energy of a fresh year I don’t wait for a new year to start. There are ways to make goals more achievable, but many people don’t even set erotic goals. You can… Continue reading

Erotic Gratitude

With all the gratitude posts I see the continual neutering of our lives.   I get it, we need to be appropriate and acceptable.  I’m lucky I don’t have to be.   This is the erotic gratitude list I shared on facebook. It will be salacious and lascivious compared to most facebook… Continue reading

Men Love It When I Promote Female Pleasure

It’s super interesting how much attention I’ve gotten from men this week as I’ve been promoting a free pleasure mapping event for women. Not bad or wrong – just interesting. My theory is that this is happening for several reasons, reinforcing how vital my work for women is. Before I… Continue reading

Treasures from Self-Examination and Pleasure Practices

Insights from personal inventory and pleasure practices.  This is an example of what comes out of the work I teach.  I’ll be sharing about it during my upcoming (free) Female Pleasure Challenge next week.  Join my group at 100 Pussy Project | Facebook, go to the events, and RSVP so… Continue reading

Female Pleasure Mapping Challenge on Facebook

  Ladies – why is it so important to know about your pleasure anyway? Like – what’s the big deal? I’ll share a bit about my story to explain why I think it is so important.   As a kid and teen, I always sought out physical connection and exploration… Continue reading