It’s okay to have what you want. Few people operate like this. Usually, we feel like we have to justify and rationalize what we want. We have some sort of belief that we are only allowed so much of what we want. Don’t think this is true for you? Try… Continue reading
My biggest source of internal conflict as a teen and young adult when it came to sex was this – how can something that feels so good be wrong? I had been taught that it’s best to abstain from sex until marriage. But I didn’t. And I felt awful about… Continue reading
Spring Cleaning for Sexual Wellness With April comes spring cleaning, and I like to do it with a twist! For all lovers of anal stimulation, I recommend experimenting with enemas, either before intimate sessions or during, for added sensation and another prop for role-play and power exchange. We’ll be talking… Continue reading
Happy Valentine’s Day! Inspired by V-day this whole month I’ve been focusing on all things vagina – the vulva, squirting, and today I’ll be sharing a few things about the clitoris. Did you know the clitoris is the only organ in the human body created for the purpose of experiencing… Continue reading
Happy February! In honor of V-day (Valentine’s Day), I’m going to focus on the vulva and vagina this month. I often talk about the anatomy of pleasure, and I even made up a new word: vaginatomy! Exploring Female Ejaculation Last week, I hosted a female squirting orgasm class/party. The party… Continue reading
I feel deep down that 2013 is going to be a fantastic year (as well as a wild ride). I’m committed to showing up for you 100%! I have a lot of fun and sexy things planned. And none of them would be possible without you! My Plans for Nikki’s… Continue reading
I have to be honest, I haven’t felt very sexy lately. I’ve been a little sick with congestion and such. I’m going to see the doctor today and most likely will get some medicine. Yay! That brings me to the question: What do you do about sex when you’re not… Continue reading
One thing that’s not discussed so often when it comes to veterans integrating back into civilian life is their sex and sexuality. I know from the clients that I’ve worked with that it is a big deal and usually they suffer in silence. They are dealing with all the usual… Continue reading
Happy Halloween / Oktoberfest / Day of the Dead / Fall Equinox, etc. As October comes to an end, I’m looking ahead to November. I’ve decided I want to do a project. Naked Gratitude I am creating this space to let you open up and get real in a safe… Continue reading
I’m feeling pretty sexy today but that’s not always the case. I hate it when I don’t feel sexy. It’s like a constant distraction. I can ignore it most of the time but the one time I can not ignore it is when I’m horny! Here are some quick tips… Continue reading