Anal, Bali, Masturbation | Checking in

Anal Update The “Art Of Anal Pleasure” class was AMAZING. We had a full house and 2 amazing demonstration models. One was a gentleman who was a very experienced anal player. He got to have his limits stretched by having an audience view his play. The second was a beautiful… Continue reading →

Delayed Ejaculation

Email Nikki@NikkiLundberg.com for more information on sex coaching and masturbation coaching. What Is Delayed Ejaculation? Delayed ejaculation is also known as impaired ejaculation. This happens when ejaculation takes longer than you would like and causes frustration. You may also get tired or sore from sex or masturbation before you ejaculate…. Continue reading →

Masturbation Benefits

What Are the Benefits of Masturbation? There are a TON of benefits to be had from masturbation, and you can exponentially increase how many you experience by practicing mindful masturbation. My favorite benefit is stress relief. Our daily lives are filled with stress from many sources. With masturbation, you can… Continue reading →

Monogamy Vs. Non-Monogamy | Social Conditioning

Coming Out as Non-Monogamous The hardest part of “coming out” was to acknowledge and accept that I am not monogamous to myself. I felt a lot of judgment for myself because of the stories/programming/conditioning I had around what monogamy and non-monogamy meant. Their meaning didn’t match up to my definition… Continue reading →

Coming Out As Polyamorous

Our Journey Into Polyamory My husband and I began living a polyamorous lifestyle in spring of 2013. We are consensually non-monogamous. We both date casually as well as carrying on serious romantic commitments with others. We agree to always let each other know where we are and to make sure… Continue reading →

My Climax

I started masturbating very young, realizing that it felt good to put pressure and friction “down there”. There was a time when I started to notice climax. And then I started experimenting with penetration. As I became sexually active I continued to masturbate.  I only noticed climax during masturbation.  I… Continue reading →

Cultivating Pleasure

Cultivate Pleasure With Sex Coach Nikki

To cultivate is to acquire or develop (a quality, sentiment, or skill). In what ways do you cultivate yourself? Are you mindful about what you do in preparation for receiving what you desire? Do you have conscious daily practices in place? Cultivating the Life I Desire In the past these… Continue reading →

Life, Sex, Business And Orgasmic Meditation

Woooh!  What a year! I can’t believe how much time has passed since my lost blog post.  I’ve taken time to focus on other things and now I’m better than ever!  I did not stop working with people around sex and sexuality.  In fact, I held more classes and worked… Continue reading →

Moms And Masturbation

Yes, hate to break it to you, but we moms do masturbate. While we might hate to think about our own mothers masturbating, studies have found that pregnant women masturbate more and women in general tend to masturbate more as they get older. I’m a mom. I’m grateful for mindful… Continue reading →

Practice

Practice Practice, noun: Habitual or customary performance; operation Habit; custom Repeated performance or systematic exercise for the purpose of acquiring skill or proficiency Condition arrived at by experience or exercise The action or process of performing or doing something The exercise or pursuit of a profession or occupation, especially law… Continue reading →