What are you waiting to start?

New year’s resolutions usually fail. While I do like to set intentions and goals and play with the energy of a fresh year I don’t wait for a new year to start. There are ways to make goals more achievable, but many people don’t even set erotic goals. You can… Continue reading

Erotic Gratitude

With all the gratitude posts I see the continual neutering of our lives.   I get it, we need to be appropriate and acceptable.  I’m lucky I don’t have to be.   This is the erotic gratitude list I shared on facebook. It will be salacious and lascivious compared to most facebook… Continue reading

Men Love It When I Promote Female Pleasure

It’s super interesting how much attention I’ve gotten from men this week as I’ve been promoting a free pleasure mapping event for women. Not bad or wrong – just interesting. My theory is that this is happening for several reasons, reinforcing how vital my work for women is. Before I… Continue reading

Treasures from Self-Examination and Pleasure Practices

Insights from personal inventory and pleasure practices.  This is an example of what comes out of the work I teach.  I’ll be sharing about it during my upcoming (free) Female Pleasure Challenge next week.  Join my group at 100 Pussy Project | Facebook, go to the events, and RSVP so… Continue reading

Female Pleasure Mapping Challenge on Facebook

  Ladies – why is it so important to know about your pleasure anyway? Like – what’s the big deal? I’ll share a bit about my story to explain why I think it is so important.   As a kid and teen, I always sought out physical connection and exploration… Continue reading

Self Pleasure Practice Experience – An Example Of What’s Possible

My self pleasure session this morning started with the desire to cum, to relieve the pressure built up from erotic experiences and from life.  This week has been filled with pool parties, clients, and family.  Anticipating another big get-together this afternoon, I wanted to take care of myself to not… Continue reading

Couples Sex Coach Session For Christmas Part 5 of 5

We all got cleaned up and dressed and sat in a circle to review the experience.  She was very happy with everything and felt a new hope that she would be able to enjoy penetrative sex.  She finally felt like she wasn’t “broken”.   He felt grateful for the experience… Continue reading