Female Ejaculation: Your Questions Answered

The following is an excerpt from an email with questions about female ejaculation: I think many women can learn to squirt, although it’s easier for some than others. The fluid is associated with the Skene’s glands, which vary in size from woman to woman. Are Squirting and Orgasm the Same?… Continue reading →

Men Love It When I Promote Female Pleasure

I’ve noticed something interesting when I promote events and programs focused on women’s pleasure. I often get a surprising amount of attention from men! It’s not bad or wrong, just interesting. I have a few theories about why this happens, and they reinforce just how important it is to help… Continue reading →

Female Pleasure Mapping Challenge on Facebook

  Ladies – why is it so important to know about your pleasure anyway? Like – what’s the big deal? I’ll share a bit about my story to explain why I think it is so important.   As a kid and teen, I always sought out physical connection and exploration… Continue reading →

Focusing On Female Pleasure, Confidence, Strength, and Power

It’s amazing to think we are starting the second half of 2021!!!  I’ve been feeling so grateful for the blessings and privileges in my life and I know one of the main ways I can keep that powerful energy flowing is by being of service as a sex coach.  I’ve… Continue reading →

My Climax

I started masturbating very young, realizing that it felt good to put pressure and friction “down there”. There was a time when I started to notice climax. And then I started experimenting with penetration. As I became sexually active I continued to masturbate.  I only noticed climax during masturbation.  I… Continue reading →

Cultivating Pleasure

Cultivate Pleasure With Sex Coach Nikki

To cultivate is to acquire or develop (a quality, sentiment, or skill). In what ways do you cultivate yourself? Are you mindful about what you do in preparation for receiving what you desire? Do you have conscious daily practices in place? Cultivating the Life I Desire In the past these… Continue reading →

Life, Sex, Business And Orgasmic Meditation

Woooh!  What a year! I can’t believe how much time has passed since my lost blog post.  I’ve taken time to focus on other things and now I’m better than ever!  I did not stop working with people around sex and sexuality.  In fact, I held more classes and worked… Continue reading →

Moms And Masturbation

Yes, hate to break it to you, but we moms do masturbate. While we might hate to think about our own mothers masturbating, studies have found that pregnant women masturbate more and women in general tend to masturbate more as they get older. I’m a mom. I’m grateful for mindful… Continue reading →

My Masturbation Awareness

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Click Here to find out about the upcoming 30 Day Self Pleasure Program My Early Experiences With Masturbation As a kid I began my masturbation as I explored my vagina in the privacy of my own room. I experienced more and more pleasure. I first identified my orgasm at around… Continue reading →

Exploring Anal Massage: A Couples Sex Coaching Experience

Sometimes you have to try something totally different. Introducing Anal Massage to a Couple Then I asked them if they had ever considered anal sex. They said no, but they were open to it. I had her flip over to her stomach and began massaging her glutes and sit bones…. Continue reading →